Parents need help advice?

Three weeks ago my girl friend and i had a fight and had sex to makeup and we also smoked 50 Cigarettes each but we confessed to that.


We just found out that she is going to have a baby. I am taking responsability for it.





But how can we tell our parents that we are going to have a baby?


We are quiting smoking but it takes a while but we are quiting


Any parenting advice? we are keeping our babyParents need help advice?
First and foremost, learn to be patient. It takes a LOT of patience to raise a child. Be responsible and pay attention. Decide now how you are going to deal with certain issues. Might I also suggest parenting classes? Depending on where you live you could possibly find them for free. Go to your local wic office, generally they can help you with such things. Do your research and buy as many parenting books you can. But most importantly PATIENCE PATIENCE PATIENCE!


As for telling you parents, if you are adults, don't stress so much about it because it is your life. If you are teenagers, just tell them straight out. Tell them what you intend to do and that you are going to be responsible. Hopefully they will support your decision, if they don't than so be it. They will be missing out. It's also likely that your girlfriends parents will be more upset than yours. Go with her and tell them together. Tell them you are going to take care of the baby, that you aren't abandoning her. Congrats and good luck to you!


Parents need help advice?
Umm...if you can have sex, you can tell your parents after you mess up. Tell em face to face.


Get a good job, both of you. So you can support your baby without the help of your parents(because well, your parents shouldn't have to raise it for you), continue going to school and go to college and whatnot. I know you said you are quitting smoking, that's good, but stick to it. My sister has stunted growth because my mom smoked while pregnant with her, I have asthma because my mom smoked while pregnant with me, and she had twins who she had prematurely because she smoked while pregnant with them- and they both passed away. Hopefully that'll give you more incentive to quit :) good luck.
CONGRATS!! Just get a test, and bring it with you guys and say mom, dad we need to talk. Say we know we messed up, but hey we are wanting to do what is right and this is what we feel and tell them you are keeping YOUR BABY. Other wise I would hunt you down and slap you. You can tell them that too lol. I do not agree with abortion. So please don't think about it. But just tell them your going to do what ever you can for her and the baby. its a good thing you guys are quiting smoking its not healthy for the baby. Also you shouldn't be having sex to make up for a fight?. More like talking it through. But hey good luck,


Lil momma



How old are you? If you're 18 or above, then telling your parents isn't such a big deal... You are now legally an adult and can make up your own minds.





If you anre under 18 then the talk could be a bit bumpy. I suggest going to the Dr first to start her prenatal care. Once that is established, you now have proof that you are acting maturely and trying to do all the right things to bring a healthy baby into the world. You both sit down with your parents together... its best to have everything lined up. How are you going to support the baby financially? Who will take care of the baby if you both need to be in school or work? Where will you live? Etc etc.. Have all of this planned out when you talk to them so they know you are seriously planning this out and have thought maturely about everything.





Your parents will respect your decision as long as they think you have a good plan in motion.





Congrats on the pgcy.
good the stopping smoking is great as for the telling your parents just do it they will mone but then get over it and look forward to the birth and a new family member ...............


good luck to you both
if your young there is no easy way to tell your parents, so just do it.





and she doesn't need to smoke period right now, there is no ';we are quitting'; It needs to stop now. for the baby's sake.





take care good luck.
That's not good for your girlfriend to smoke while having a baby. Your baby might have trouble breathing. Throw the cigarettes a way!
all depends on ur ages. if ur like a teenager doenst mater how u tell them , they will freak.





but if ur of the age, (21+) GO FOR IT! THEY';LL BE HAPPY =)





sorry i cant be of much help.
Just be honest with them..The faster you tell them the easier it will be..and the faster they will come around to helping..