May have STD and girlfriend not being supportive please help advice needed?

i've been going out with this girl for 9 months i got checked before doing anything with her. i love her and want to spend the rest of my life with her but she has a lot of problems in her life that i've been dealing with. like her attitude her mothers strictness and her lack of sex drive due to her birth control pills. i got a phone call today from my ex telling me she has an std and she hasn't been with anyone after me i know if i have it she gave it to me because she took my virginity but i need to find out officially if i have it. told my girlfriend and she was like but you got checked and i said i know but not for this the disease is curable so i'm not about to die or anyhitng but when i ask my girlfriend to lets go get checked she was like you go she may have given it to you and i was shocked. we had did things together and i would think that you would want to make sure your alright plus she was acting like she didn't want to support me when i need her the most and i'm wondering?May have STD and girlfriend not being supportive please help advice needed?
She may be embarrassed to get checked herself. Maybe she is waiting to see if you actually have it before going in herself. If you don't have it, she'll never have to go in and admit to a stranger that she thinks she might.May have STD and girlfriend not being supportive please help advice needed?
Give her a break. . .she's probably in shock. She could have this too-and curable or not and STD is nothing to take lightly. You can go to the Dr. on your own, couples do this all the time.
She sounds like an immature selfish bi+ch. You really need to think about how she's acting right now. How would she expect you to act if the tables were turned?? She sounds childish and undeserving of your love.
why do you love her if she is rude and non supportive just break up with her..she doestn seem that great
If this is the only girl you have been with really then she has cheated, trust is gone and it will never work, see a Doctor confirm your suspicions if verified get treated and find a new relationship. PS libido is not lost from birth control it is normally lost to over indulging and a lack of fore play. Women warm up A LOT SLOWER...sooner you learn this the better!
Hmm well for starters i would like to commend you on how responsible you are. Well i don't think it's a matter of being supportive. I have a feeling her mother might play a part in this. Imagine if you did get an STD and she had contracted it also, what is she supposed to tell her mother? ';Mom my boyfriend gave me an STD'; Chances are her mom would hate you. My guess is she has stayed loyal to you so if you get tested and the results are negative she doesn't have to tell her mother she had to get tested and things go back to normal. But if you are positive im sure she will go and tested. So ask her to go with you to support you while you get tested.