Am doing everything not very well. Caused a massive bustup with my wife last night. Her flu is worse today.Help advice needed please.?
You've got your work cut out bless. Keep plodding on. Try flowers for your wife and try explaining that you are trying your best. Hope you all feel better soon xHelp advice needed please.?
You won't be able to do anything right. Give her lots of tlc , could you call her/your mum for help?
Time to take everyone to the doctor if they are not getting well.
What do you mean you are ';doing everything not very well';? If you mean taking care of all of them, it is pretty easy; hot soup, tea, kleenex, they need to rest, make sure they drink lots of water. If you aren't taking a few days off of work, looks like you better at this point.
take everyone a cup of tea,and get your wife some flowers,hope this helps,oh, and a cuddle if she will let you.
Try doing perhaps 2 things very well rather than everything not very well!!!! Ask your wife what are priority jobs and just do them. Keep up the good work, she'll love you when she gets better! Good luck
I wouldn't take it too much to heart, the bustup with the wife last night was more illness driven. Wives usually hate to be out of it, sickly and down while the house and kids go to toothpicks. The most important thing is to keep the nursing up. You try to keep the kitchen and bathroom clean, relatively speaking, and let the dust bunnies replicate under the sofa for the moment. Keep pushing the fluids to everyone as best you can. Canned broth based soups are the best bet for food, along with tea, crackers and sympathy. Ask the wife what she wants done, so far as things she feels must be done to keep up. Give her TLC, accept that sick people are usually not at their personal best, not very tolerant, and sometimes downright ugly to nurse. I know, I'm a nurse. And mom of four, and when I am sick, I'm plenty ugly. It also doesn't hurt if you also tip your hat to her and admit to her that you admire the job she does day in and out. Nothing wrong with simply telling her you can't do what she does as well as she does. You just give it your best shot, hang in there, and pretty soon things will return to normal. And when they do, a word to the wise husband- don't ever admit that she was a right booger while she was sick. Just smile, hug her, and tell her how glad you are she's mended.
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