I have hit 1 dead end after another with girls recently and im just wondering what do girls want in a guy, besides the obvious stuff, i am a fairly good looking guy with a sense of humor, just had a lot of bad luck i guess. plz help, thanx.Need dating advice plz help?
Girls like more than looks and humor in a guy. They like guys who can have a fun side and a compassionate side. When you're on a date, try NOT to rush things too quickly. Let's say you and your date are out to dinner. Make sure you ALWAYS pay the bill and leave the right tip. NEVER EVER let the girl pay. Ever. She'll think you can't afford a meal for two people. Other tips are: Don't eat garlicy foods because if you try to kiss her, your breath will smell like crap. Don't be too obnoxious during the date (don't criticize any aspect of her life OR herself) Don't tell her she's fat. Make her feel special. Make sure you don't talk way too much or way too little. Girls like men that will make them feel like their a fragile dove. And most importantly, don't say things you don't mean. (Like dress for example, don't say ';You're dress looks fantastic!';, Instead, say something more like ';You look amazing!'; Don't say the words ';I love you'; unless you really mean it. Saying those 3 little words too early can make such a bad impact on your relationship. Wait until youve been dating for at least a few months ti say those words.
Hope this helpes!!!Need dating advice plz help?
solved.
I had the same situation as you about a month ago.
Basically all you need to be is a little louder, be more confident, walk a little taller or walk with a purpose, be in a more playful mood all the time, smile more often(really) and finally dress nicely or find a good style to show who you are and be an individual.
thats really all you need, OH! dont be needy! never ever be a needy person that is a turn off for girls. well thats about it, it worked for me and it shoudl work for you
Saturday, July 31, 2010
Regarding a Spider Bite on forehead, I need some advice and help immediately.?
Wednesday I asked a question on here about how I have a huge bump on my forehead and it kept growing.
I went ER that night and got a antibiotic for cellulitis called Keflex. I didnt get the medicine till Thursday morning, since then I have taken 4 pills as recommended for the first day. The doc said, it could be a spider bite, but all he did was look at it for maybe 5 seconds, and then prescribed me meds.
Right now, about 2 hours ago, I look in the mirror and yellow disgusting stuff was coming out of the center. I didnt want to get my parents into some kinda panic fest and get them to drive back 30-35 miles from work, so I decided to just sit around. After 15 mins, it looked dry again. I put some Cortizone, and just chilled. Come 2 hours later, I touched my forehead, and I have, not the Cortizone cream, but the yellow stuff on my forehead and it drips onto my index finger, I have wiped it off, but now I see a very small, but noticble red rip in the skin, redness all around.Regarding a Spider Bite on forehead, I need some advice and help immediately.?
You need to go to the ER. My husband was bitten by a brown recluse on his knee and the same pus you descibe started to occur. Regular antibiotics did not help. The brown recluse spider is notorious for transmitting necrotising fasciitis to humans that it bites--rots the skin. My husband almost lost his leg--now he has a scar about the size of his fist on his leg. Go get it checked out!Regarding a Spider Bite on forehead, I need some advice and help immediately.?
Don't do anything without talking to one or both of your parents first. Call whichever one is least likely to get in trouble for receiving personal calls at work. Ask them what to do. I'd think the fact that it's draining, getting rid of the infection, is a good thing. In the mean time, hold a clean, warm, damp washcloth on it.
Call one of your parents right now.
GO TO THE ER NOW CALL 911 AND GO TO A TRAUMA CENTER YOU ARE DYING
I have a friend who had a spider bite like the one you described. She almost died from it. Go to the ER and ask to be seen immediately and put in the hospital. The reason why I say you will have to stay overnight is because it is a good a idea to be monitored by doctors for 1-2 days. If it doesn't heal, then go see an Osteopathic Doctor.
GO to Emermcy room
I went ER that night and got a antibiotic for cellulitis called Keflex. I didnt get the medicine till Thursday morning, since then I have taken 4 pills as recommended for the first day. The doc said, it could be a spider bite, but all he did was look at it for maybe 5 seconds, and then prescribed me meds.
Right now, about 2 hours ago, I look in the mirror and yellow disgusting stuff was coming out of the center. I didnt want to get my parents into some kinda panic fest and get them to drive back 30-35 miles from work, so I decided to just sit around. After 15 mins, it looked dry again. I put some Cortizone, and just chilled. Come 2 hours later, I touched my forehead, and I have, not the Cortizone cream, but the yellow stuff on my forehead and it drips onto my index finger, I have wiped it off, but now I see a very small, but noticble red rip in the skin, redness all around.Regarding a Spider Bite on forehead, I need some advice and help immediately.?
You need to go to the ER. My husband was bitten by a brown recluse on his knee and the same pus you descibe started to occur. Regular antibiotics did not help. The brown recluse spider is notorious for transmitting necrotising fasciitis to humans that it bites--rots the skin. My husband almost lost his leg--now he has a scar about the size of his fist on his leg. Go get it checked out!Regarding a Spider Bite on forehead, I need some advice and help immediately.?
Don't do anything without talking to one or both of your parents first. Call whichever one is least likely to get in trouble for receiving personal calls at work. Ask them what to do. I'd think the fact that it's draining, getting rid of the infection, is a good thing. In the mean time, hold a clean, warm, damp washcloth on it.
Call one of your parents right now.
GO TO THE ER NOW CALL 911 AND GO TO A TRAUMA CENTER YOU ARE DYING
I have a friend who had a spider bite like the one you described. She almost died from it. Go to the ER and ask to be seen immediately and put in the hospital. The reason why I say you will have to stay overnight is because it is a good a idea to be monitored by doctors for 1-2 days. If it doesn't heal, then go see an Osteopathic Doctor.
GO to Emermcy room
Protein shake help advice needed!!!! Thanks?
I am 15 i want to bulk up a fair bit! I go to the gym twice a week keen to start taking protein shakes! any advice?? i am weigh 57 kgs on the skinner side but i play A lot of sports! what shake brands do i use? how often a day should i take it? Thanks Heaps Nat!!Protein shake help advice needed!!!! Thanks?
If you have a lot of extra cash I would get Nitrean Whey protein. Its a mix blend of Casein, egg whites, and whey protein. Optimum Nutrition 100% is a little less expensive than Nitrean, but it still good but not as good as Nitrean. If you don't want to spend a lot of money I'd get Eas or Now whey protein.
You should take your shake an hour or 30 mins before your workout and directly after it.Protein shake help advice needed!!!! Thanks?
depends.
if you are a vegetarian than i'd recommend brown rice protein.
but for me i find Gold standard whey protein one of the better on the market.
i find the best way to take it is between breakfast and lunch or late in the day.
whey protein all the way baby
Here's my favorite :)
http://www.appetizerdiet.com/473718
If you have a lot of extra cash I would get Nitrean Whey protein. Its a mix blend of Casein, egg whites, and whey protein. Optimum Nutrition 100% is a little less expensive than Nitrean, but it still good but not as good as Nitrean. If you don't want to spend a lot of money I'd get Eas or Now whey protein.
You should take your shake an hour or 30 mins before your workout and directly after it.Protein shake help advice needed!!!! Thanks?
depends.
if you are a vegetarian than i'd recommend brown rice protein.
but for me i find Gold standard whey protein one of the better on the market.
i find the best way to take it is between breakfast and lunch or late in the day.
whey protein all the way baby
Here's my favorite :)
http://www.appetizerdiet.com/473718
Help>? need real advice about work, i made a mistake plz help?
Help%26gt;? need real advice about work, i made a mistake plz help?
well when i was little i had shop lifted, but i still got that record but i have to wait for another 2 years to clear off, now i am 14 years old, i know i made mistake, but i need help. When people hire do they look at ur record and see if you have crimal record? will they still hire you, i am only working for Christmas holiday would they hire meHelp%26gt;? need real advice about work, i made a mistake plz help?
word to the wise.....
Admit the crime to your would-be employer... far better to be upfront and honest than have them find out. Be remorseful and say you have learnt your lesson.Help%26gt;? need real advice about work, i made a mistake plz help?
Unfortunately, for those of us who have been victims of ';juveniles';, criminal records are ';sealed';--not accessible to the public. Fortunately, for you, as a juvenile, employers do not have access to your record.
You're not planning to get a job in the store you shoplifted from, are you? If not, you're fine. An employer's not going to check the arrest record of a 14 year old for job over the holidays.
some employers look at your record but as it is only a little job they probably won't mine
yeah I agree with him, they probably would look at your school reports though......skin care
well when i was little i had shop lifted, but i still got that record but i have to wait for another 2 years to clear off, now i am 14 years old, i know i made mistake, but i need help. When people hire do they look at ur record and see if you have crimal record? will they still hire you, i am only working for Christmas holiday would they hire meHelp%26gt;? need real advice about work, i made a mistake plz help?
word to the wise.....
Admit the crime to your would-be employer... far better to be upfront and honest than have them find out. Be remorseful and say you have learnt your lesson.Help%26gt;? need real advice about work, i made a mistake plz help?
Unfortunately, for those of us who have been victims of ';juveniles';, criminal records are ';sealed';--not accessible to the public. Fortunately, for you, as a juvenile, employers do not have access to your record.
You're not planning to get a job in the store you shoplifted from, are you? If not, you're fine. An employer's not going to check the arrest record of a 14 year old for job over the holidays.
some employers look at your record but as it is only a little job they probably won't mine
yeah I agree with him, they probably would look at your school reports though......
Pregnant?? Or just wishful thinking?? Advice? Help? Stories? Please?
We've been ttc for soo long.. 9 months!
I finally got so sick of BFN's that this month i just said WHATEVER! lol
I just didn't think about, well as little as possible, but ive just realised my period was due 3 days ago.. I have been a little late the past couple months.. But never more than 4 days..
I can't believe i'm late again.. I don't have any of the period signs that i usually have.. I think that's why i didn't realise i was late.. Like i usually get sore breasts 2-3 days before period and then light cramping around the day it's due.. But nothing this month.. But then again i haven't had anything that seems like a pregnancy sign either..
I don't want take a HPT.. I'm scared it will be neg yet again.. And i just don't want to have to go through that again..
What do you all think?
Any ideas, theories, stories or advice?
Please help?
Thank you all!Pregnant?? Or just wishful thinking?? Advice? Help? Stories? Please?
Nahhh .... I would test! The fact that you didn't get any AF signs is really good .... sometimes it's a little hunch like that which tells you you're pregnant. If you're late, just POAS already :) Good luck and hey, keep us posted!Pregnant?? Or just wishful thinking?? Advice? Help? Stories? Please?
I would wait a little bit longer..see if your periods do show up or not. Every women is different when they fall pregnant..you may not get any signs..like being sick or any of the other symptoms that associate with pregnancy. But if say around 7 days to 14 days I would have a test done then, because then you know yourself that's something is going on.
Sounds like you are super stressed about it which will irregulate your cycle to begin with and prolong your dream. Try to somehow relax and it will happen. Here's a story which will make you feel good, yet hope this is not the case with you....I know a woman who was with her husband 9 years, finally decided to conceive and after a year and a half of trying, went through infertility treatment for another year and nothing.....just within a few months guess what, afte she figured it was just not gonna happen, she got pregnant.....once she stopped obsessing.....and today she has 2 beautiful little girls which were born 1 year apart....believe it or not, it happens all the time. Stress and anxiousness are your worst enemy right now.....hope this helps and good luck to you. Just test and don't dispair. I hope you get many bfp's from now on (=
I agree with waiting a little while longer. If it doesn't show up in four days, maybe you could go to your doctor and get them to do a test? Then at least you wouldn't have to LOOK at the result unless it was good lol.
I know how it feels to see those stupid BFNs when all you want is that second line (why is it so hard to get that second damn line? I swear those tests have it in for all the TTCers...), so all I can say is, time will tell.
But I'm a POAS addict myself, so I'd be testing every other day until it either gave me that second line, or AF came. But that's just me =)
Either way, good luck and baby dust to you, whether it's this month or not. (If not, then hopefully SOON!!!)
xo Cal
I finally got so sick of BFN's that this month i just said WHATEVER! lol
I just didn't think about, well as little as possible, but ive just realised my period was due 3 days ago.. I have been a little late the past couple months.. But never more than 4 days..
I can't believe i'm late again.. I don't have any of the period signs that i usually have.. I think that's why i didn't realise i was late.. Like i usually get sore breasts 2-3 days before period and then light cramping around the day it's due.. But nothing this month.. But then again i haven't had anything that seems like a pregnancy sign either..
I don't want take a HPT.. I'm scared it will be neg yet again.. And i just don't want to have to go through that again..
What do you all think?
Any ideas, theories, stories or advice?
Please help?
Thank you all!Pregnant?? Or just wishful thinking?? Advice? Help? Stories? Please?
Nahhh .... I would test! The fact that you didn't get any AF signs is really good .... sometimes it's a little hunch like that which tells you you're pregnant. If you're late, just POAS already :) Good luck and hey, keep us posted!Pregnant?? Or just wishful thinking?? Advice? Help? Stories? Please?
I would wait a little bit longer..see if your periods do show up or not. Every women is different when they fall pregnant..you may not get any signs..like being sick or any of the other symptoms that associate with pregnancy. But if say around 7 days to 14 days I would have a test done then, because then you know yourself that's something is going on.
Sounds like you are super stressed about it which will irregulate your cycle to begin with and prolong your dream. Try to somehow relax and it will happen. Here's a story which will make you feel good, yet hope this is not the case with you....I know a woman who was with her husband 9 years, finally decided to conceive and after a year and a half of trying, went through infertility treatment for another year and nothing.....just within a few months guess what, afte she figured it was just not gonna happen, she got pregnant.....once she stopped obsessing.....and today she has 2 beautiful little girls which were born 1 year apart....believe it or not, it happens all the time. Stress and anxiousness are your worst enemy right now.....hope this helps and good luck to you. Just test and don't dispair. I hope you get many bfp's from now on (=
I agree with waiting a little while longer. If it doesn't show up in four days, maybe you could go to your doctor and get them to do a test? Then at least you wouldn't have to LOOK at the result unless it was good lol.
I know how it feels to see those stupid BFNs when all you want is that second line (why is it so hard to get that second damn line? I swear those tests have it in for all the TTCers...), so all I can say is, time will tell.
But I'm a POAS addict myself, so I'd be testing every other day until it either gave me that second line, or AF came. But that's just me =)
Either way, good luck and baby dust to you, whether it's this month or not. (If not, then hopefully SOON!!!)
xo Cal
Loong story need girls opinions/advice Help!?
had a situation with this girl we became close friends very close but we ne, we got to be pretty close, lots of people assumed we were together...but i was very shy at the time and never made a move lookingback i def should have....
. we got along great.after a while we had our misunderstandings were on and off friends for a while saw other people ,there was always some sexual tension between us...i was very inexperened when we first met , i have a tendency to get protective of her thats where some issues come from, some of her friends i dont really think are good for her, i drink i wont bite my toungue about it...i really cant stop myself sometimes, i would go off and i could see she would be hurt, i feel terrible about doing it...
Welli ended up back home afnd we both were single but she wouldnt talk 2 me at the time.....i sent her flowers by deliv and told her i was sorry and that ive had feelings for her...she invited me to come to her birthday party when i saw her and seemed to be happy with me...at her party I got drunk some things i shouldnt have about her friends after another fight a week afterthat which i dont recall...i didnt try talking to her again for 2-3 months later by then she started seeing someone else.I know i said stupid things to her but it was just being protective not really intentionally hurtful your all probably thinkingim nalcholholibut really not,just a little alchohol bring s out my protectiveness of her,i drink proably twice a month now so thats not an issue,i really dont mean it i wish i wasnt like that...
.so she seeing someone elese i respect that, she saw me at a party after she started seeing him was giving me smiles and seemed like she was following me around but io didnt say much but hi, didnt really try contacting her except on her birthday, never emailed imed or anything......she blocked me on aim months and months after last time i tried talking to her and now she wont accept my facebook request and isnt denying it either just letting it sit there....all her friends also give me strange looks when i see them her close girl friends too not the creeps i was so protective about...your like i did something terrible, i saw her 2 nights ago at the bar, i tried avoiding her she seemed to be around a lot...we made eye contact once and she gave me a smile, she also was standing behind me it seemed every time i looked at the bar,,,why wouldnt she try to avoid me if she hates me enough to block me on aim?? i mean she keeps playing games this has been years and years...shes got a boyfriend shouldnt she be tired of this? if your gonna block me wouldnt you stay the hell away from me if were in the same bar? it seemed like i was the one angry at the bar, i wanted to talk but since she blocked me i though mabye i shoudlnt...what should i do....its not like ivebeen iming her, calling or anything in the last year so this blcoking is ridiculous.Loong story need girls opinions/advice Help!?
she does sound immature, however you seem to have issues about being over protective, maybe she felt 'smothered', if we hold on too tight, the other person wants to get away, i think you are lacking in self esteem, which is perhaps where the 'dutch courage'; drinking came from, i do think you need to move on from her, as this is clearly going nowhere, and the more you try to analyse it, the more you will screw your head upLoong story need girls opinions/advice Help!?
I amswered this last time you asked so I'll say the same again....she is being an immature girl and is playing games with you.
So you need to forget her and move on. She has a bf so she's not interested in you.
If she's blocked you and wont accept your facebook request then how much more proof do you need that she doesn't give a crap about you.
. we got along great.after a while we had our misunderstandings were on and off friends for a while saw other people ,there was always some sexual tension between us...i was very inexperened when we first met , i have a tendency to get protective of her thats where some issues come from, some of her friends i dont really think are good for her, i drink i wont bite my toungue about it...i really cant stop myself sometimes, i would go off and i could see she would be hurt, i feel terrible about doing it...
Welli ended up back home afnd we both were single but she wouldnt talk 2 me at the time.....i sent her flowers by deliv and told her i was sorry and that ive had feelings for her...she invited me to come to her birthday party when i saw her and seemed to be happy with me...at her party I got drunk some things i shouldnt have about her friends after another fight a week afterthat which i dont recall...i didnt try talking to her again for 2-3 months later by then she started seeing someone else.I know i said stupid things to her but it was just being protective not really intentionally hurtful your all probably thinkingim nalcholholibut really not,just a little alchohol bring s out my protectiveness of her,i drink proably twice a month now so thats not an issue,i really dont mean it i wish i wasnt like that...
.so she seeing someone elese i respect that, she saw me at a party after she started seeing him was giving me smiles and seemed like she was following me around but io didnt say much but hi, didnt really try contacting her except on her birthday, never emailed imed or anything......she blocked me on aim months and months after last time i tried talking to her and now she wont accept my facebook request and isnt denying it either just letting it sit there....all her friends also give me strange looks when i see them her close girl friends too not the creeps i was so protective about...your like i did something terrible, i saw her 2 nights ago at the bar, i tried avoiding her she seemed to be around a lot...we made eye contact once and she gave me a smile, she also was standing behind me it seemed every time i looked at the bar,,,why wouldnt she try to avoid me if she hates me enough to block me on aim?? i mean she keeps playing games this has been years and years...shes got a boyfriend shouldnt she be tired of this? if your gonna block me wouldnt you stay the hell away from me if were in the same bar? it seemed like i was the one angry at the bar, i wanted to talk but since she blocked me i though mabye i shoudlnt...what should i do....its not like ivebeen iming her, calling or anything in the last year so this blcoking is ridiculous.Loong story need girls opinions/advice Help!?
she does sound immature, however you seem to have issues about being over protective, maybe she felt 'smothered', if we hold on too tight, the other person wants to get away, i think you are lacking in self esteem, which is perhaps where the 'dutch courage'; drinking came from, i do think you need to move on from her, as this is clearly going nowhere, and the more you try to analyse it, the more you will screw your head upLoong story need girls opinions/advice Help!?
I amswered this last time you asked so I'll say the same again....she is being an immature girl and is playing games with you.
So you need to forget her and move on. She has a bf so she's not interested in you.
If she's blocked you and wont accept your facebook request then how much more proof do you need that she doesn't give a crap about you.
Okay i need some serious advice help me please.?
okay so ive posted many questions before on this subject. acting. i luv acting and singing and music so much. its my dream to become an actress some day. some day soon. ive been in so many elementary school performances and im trying out for all of the middle school ones right now. so m working on getting the experience. what i need is classes. classes near culpeper, va that can help me with my voice and acting.
i need acting advice. help with monolouges and all of the good and bad things in this show biz world. so please idc how long the answers are as a matter of fact i want them to be long tell me everything thats true and everything that could be helpful to my future career and building up to it. its been so long trying to persue this dream and im not giving up but i dont seem to be getting anywhere with it. so u tell me whats the next step?Okay i need some serious advice help me please.?
What is your ACTING or VOICE or TALENT COACH saying about your needs and abilities.. you DO have a professional helping you... right?
i need acting advice. help with monolouges and all of the good and bad things in this show biz world. so please idc how long the answers are as a matter of fact i want them to be long tell me everything thats true and everything that could be helpful to my future career and building up to it. its been so long trying to persue this dream and im not giving up but i dont seem to be getting anywhere with it. so u tell me whats the next step?Okay i need some serious advice help me please.?
What is your ACTING or VOICE or TALENT COACH saying about your needs and abilities.. you DO have a professional helping you... right?
I need serious advice for a job interview please help!?
Im extremely anxious and am not sure what to wear the job interview is at 2 tommorrow at a high quality fruit market named Nino Salvaggios any tips on what to wear casual or non casual or whatever ect ect also Im nervous and tips to relax and not appear to be? (first official job interview 16yrsold)I need serious advice for a job interview please help!?
at 16 and its only a supermarket. casual. even though its an upscale supermarket you shouldn't over do it.
casual but not too casual. tuck in your shirt!!! it will show discipline and that you are neat and organizedI need serious advice for a job interview please help!?
I think that you should always look your best. In this case I'd say nicely ironed khakis, button up tucked in shirt, shave if you have facial hair! Just be confident, walk in there knowing you have the job and it's a piece of cake. Confidence. Set your mind to it, be ready for the most common questions like: ';So, tell me a little bit about yourself?'; Gosh, I personally hate that one and a good way to answer is.....hard working, dedidated, self-sufficient, team player, etc....: ';Why are you the best person for this job?'; I know I'm the best because I love what I do and I know I can offer a lot with my skills and dependability, I welcome new challenges...Also '; What are your aspirations into working with this company?'; Good answer can be,..To contribute to working as a team to share your professional loyalty to help the company succeed......I hope this can help, GOOD LUCK!!! Remember to smile a lot too!
You always want to dress up for an interview because first impressions are everything. Assuming you are amle, I would say slacks paired with a button up shirt and nice shoes (not sneakers). About you being nervous, there is really nothing for you to be nervous about. Just think of the interviewer as a normal person, as a friend or colleague. Just remind yourself to breathe. I would even do some deep breathing and relaxing before going. When I go to interviews I get sweaty hands. We all know that one of the first thing you have to do at an interview is shake the interviewers hand, so it is always good to carry a tissue in your pocket.
Good luck.
I know what you're talking about--first inteview is always nerve wrecking but you cannot let the interviewer see or feel that sort of vibe. You have to be firm and solid in your answers. Regarding what you should wear, you can never go wrong with black slacks/pants and a nice solid button up shirt. Throw a tie in if you want but if it's for a supermarket type of job, you don't have to wear the tie. Good luck and I'm sure you'll do great. :)
1) Weat the same type of clothes the rest of the workers wear. If in doubt, wear a nice polo shirt with no advertising and khaki pants.
2) Smile and have a good firm handshake.
3) Keep good eye contact with the interviewer,
4) Answer only the question asked. Don't volunteer more information on any subject.
5) Just relax. Remember the interviewer wants to hire you. He or she doesn't want to interview 100 people for the job.
6) Don't ask about paid days off or vacation days. It will seem that you don't want to work.
7) Be honest. If you can't work nights because of your school work, tell the interviewer.
8) At the end of the interview, ask when they will be making a decision.
9) Tell the interviewer that you don't know much about fruit but are willing to learn.
10) Smile and thank the person for the interview. When you get home write a handwritten thank you for the interview note and send it. No one else will do this and they will be very impressed. Good luck.
alright wear something in the middle like a buttoned up shir and a very nice pair of levi's of cackis.
some advice is to medditate, dont chew gum during interview, and tonight go somewhere relaxing and gather up your thoughts. and before your interview take a nice hot bath to relax you and listen to music that makes you happy
GOOD LUCK!
It says a lot about you that you're even nervous. That means that this job is important to you and that's great. I spent many years hiring people to work at pizza shops and I always looked for someone who was dressed professionally. You don't need to buy a suit but wear your Sunday best. Don't dress casual - you want to stand out from anyone else they might interview. Don't use slang while speaking to the interviewer. Answer ';yes'; instead of ';ya';, etc. Give a nice firm handshake. Look them in the eyes. I never hired anyone who looked shifty or wouldn't make eye contact. Relax, breathe deep and believe in yourself. Self confidence will get you extra bonus points.
Just remember that all the extra things you've done to prepare for the interview will make you a sure thing - that should help you relax. Good luck!!
Dress business casual.
at 16 and its only a supermarket. casual. even though its an upscale supermarket you shouldn't over do it.
casual but not too casual. tuck in your shirt!!! it will show discipline and that you are neat and organizedI need serious advice for a job interview please help!?
I think that you should always look your best. In this case I'd say nicely ironed khakis, button up tucked in shirt, shave if you have facial hair! Just be confident, walk in there knowing you have the job and it's a piece of cake. Confidence. Set your mind to it, be ready for the most common questions like: ';So, tell me a little bit about yourself?'; Gosh, I personally hate that one and a good way to answer is.....hard working, dedidated, self-sufficient, team player, etc....: ';Why are you the best person for this job?'; I know I'm the best because I love what I do and I know I can offer a lot with my skills and dependability, I welcome new challenges...Also '; What are your aspirations into working with this company?'; Good answer can be,..To contribute to working as a team to share your professional loyalty to help the company succeed......I hope this can help, GOOD LUCK!!! Remember to smile a lot too!
You always want to dress up for an interview because first impressions are everything. Assuming you are amle, I would say slacks paired with a button up shirt and nice shoes (not sneakers). About you being nervous, there is really nothing for you to be nervous about. Just think of the interviewer as a normal person, as a friend or colleague. Just remind yourself to breathe. I would even do some deep breathing and relaxing before going. When I go to interviews I get sweaty hands. We all know that one of the first thing you have to do at an interview is shake the interviewers hand, so it is always good to carry a tissue in your pocket.
Good luck.
I know what you're talking about--first inteview is always nerve wrecking but you cannot let the interviewer see or feel that sort of vibe. You have to be firm and solid in your answers. Regarding what you should wear, you can never go wrong with black slacks/pants and a nice solid button up shirt. Throw a tie in if you want but if it's for a supermarket type of job, you don't have to wear the tie. Good luck and I'm sure you'll do great. :)
1) Weat the same type of clothes the rest of the workers wear. If in doubt, wear a nice polo shirt with no advertising and khaki pants.
2) Smile and have a good firm handshake.
3) Keep good eye contact with the interviewer,
4) Answer only the question asked. Don't volunteer more information on any subject.
5) Just relax. Remember the interviewer wants to hire you. He or she doesn't want to interview 100 people for the job.
6) Don't ask about paid days off or vacation days. It will seem that you don't want to work.
7) Be honest. If you can't work nights because of your school work, tell the interviewer.
8) At the end of the interview, ask when they will be making a decision.
9) Tell the interviewer that you don't know much about fruit but are willing to learn.
10) Smile and thank the person for the interview. When you get home write a handwritten thank you for the interview note and send it. No one else will do this and they will be very impressed. Good luck.
alright wear something in the middle like a buttoned up shir and a very nice pair of levi's of cackis.
some advice is to medditate, dont chew gum during interview, and tonight go somewhere relaxing and gather up your thoughts. and before your interview take a nice hot bath to relax you and listen to music that makes you happy
GOOD LUCK!
It says a lot about you that you're even nervous. That means that this job is important to you and that's great. I spent many years hiring people to work at pizza shops and I always looked for someone who was dressed professionally. You don't need to buy a suit but wear your Sunday best. Don't dress casual - you want to stand out from anyone else they might interview. Don't use slang while speaking to the interviewer. Answer ';yes'; instead of ';ya';, etc. Give a nice firm handshake. Look them in the eyes. I never hired anyone who looked shifty or wouldn't make eye contact. Relax, breathe deep and believe in yourself. Self confidence will get you extra bonus points.
Just remember that all the extra things you've done to prepare for the interview will make you a sure thing - that should help you relax. Good luck!!
Dress business casual.
HELP i need advice i want to tell my friend about this boybut dont want to get into the purressure?
please help give sadvice (sorry i spell things wrong)HELP i need advice i want to tell my friend about this boybut dont want to get into the purressure?
Is what you want to tell her good or bad? Is it something you would want someone to tell you if the roles were reversed? Remember friends have each others back no matter what.
Is what you want to tell her good or bad? Is it something you would want someone to tell you if the roles were reversed? Remember friends have each others back no matter what.
My boyfriend's ex girlfriend? advice / help please?
My boyfriend鈥檚 ex girlfriend requested me on myspace and has been stalking me鈥 have 3 trackers on my page and she looks at my page 20 times a day at least. I have met her a few times and she requested me and I accepted her friendship. The only reason I accepted her was because she isfriends with all my boyfriend鈥檚 friends so I didn鈥檛 want to be mean and not accept her as a friend and she is sometimes at his friends parties. I have been with my man for 1 陆 years and I think she may love him still not sure. My man and I are madly in love and he gave me a diamond promise ring鈥an you think of a song I can put on my page to get through to her??? So she knows there is no chance with him hes practically engaged to me鈥e also live together. I don鈥檛 want to tell my man or say anything to her.My boyfriend's ex girlfriend? advice / help please?
First of all, a song isn't going to do it for her...all you are doing is playing into her games. So what if she trolls your myspace, maybe she's just checking to see what your mutual friends are saying to you. Anyway, the more mature you act about this and not give her any indication that she is annoying you the more she will try for awhile...but eventually give up. After a year and a half and a promise ring I would say you are safe in a stable relationship...Whatever you do do not tell you boyfriend that she gets to you.
Just remember you are the one he comes home to.detox cleansing
First of all, a song isn't going to do it for her...all you are doing is playing into her games. So what if she trolls your myspace, maybe she's just checking to see what your mutual friends are saying to you. Anyway, the more mature you act about this and not give her any indication that she is annoying you the more she will try for awhile...but eventually give up. After a year and a half and a promise ring I would say you are safe in a stable relationship...Whatever you do do not tell you boyfriend that she gets to you.
Just remember you are the one he comes home to.
I really like this girl, advice / help!?
There's this girl in one of my courses that I really like. She always laughs at my jokes, and I would say that we know each other pretty well now, and our conversation flows really well.
However, sometimes I'm a bit confused about whether she's interested in me at all. shes in my morning class and she sits next to me and we always talk to each other, as i said she laughs at the things i say and we talk about a lot. just the other day we spent the whole day together from 7 in the morning to almost 10 at night. then today its as if i wasnt alive, we barely spoke she said hi to me and hit me a few times but thats it. like the day i was with her she was always touching me, hugging me, laughing at me always asking where i am( we were with 2 other ppl, but she always hung around me) things like that, just 2day got me confused as if she really is interested in me or is just being nice? we can stare eye to eye at each other for a while, just randomly smile at each other, whats on her mind?I really like this girl, advice / help!?
Just be yourself. If she's interested, believe me you will know.
At the same time, don't limit yourself while you're waiting on her.
Have fun and enjoy these times, they go by pretty fast :)I really like this girl, advice / help!?
ummmmmmm...... i think u should talk 2 her and ask even though it feels really akward. she can't spend all her time w. u. she has other friends.
omg dis is weird but its exactly like that between my and my guy pal for a second there i thought you were him!
anyway there isn't much i can say coz im trying to figure this out too soz
but anyway ill try
ask her buds whats going on and maybe even ask her out
so what if u get rejected?
you can still be friends with her!
life is crazy and to match with our lives we have to do crazy things-im not saying jump off a cliff in your underwear and shout i love you im saying take a chance and hope things work out for the best
oh this is sooo easy if she is always staring at you like almost every minute be a man just ask her get her some flowers just make HER confused then when it hits the right moment she will ask you somthing and then you might have a chance to ask her out... i mean you have been knowing her for like ever maybe now it's the time to move up a step and ask her out on a date take her 2 a fancy resturant and see what happens...
Get to know her and then maybe ask her out. What do you have to loose?
Sounds like she's trying to play it cool so she doesn't look like a fool if you don't like her. She probably suspects you do, but if she spent the whole day apparently flirting and you didn't do anything about it, she may be getting doubts. So, ask her to do something with you and see what she does. One of you is eventually going to have to stop being a wuss and kiss the other! (This is much easier and less awkward than confessing to a crush.)
maybe, shes jus relizied her feelings for u. and shes not sure if u feel the same. try to pull her aside a talk to her a bout it. then go from there.
from the above said things its very clear dat u like her very much and she too likes u.. but u confused what she has in her mind right?? and u jus don wanna say i like u.. instead u try take her some place where u both can spend time alone and be casual to her and whil talkin to her look at her eyes for a while and her lips. this should repeat severral times. and while doing that u shuld be talkin abt her beauty and wat she likes.. and if u find she is comfortable with her, jus try kissing her... i don think she will refuse.... if she refused leave for the day and try someother day..... don give up... one day or the other she will be okay with it...
However, sometimes I'm a bit confused about whether she's interested in me at all. shes in my morning class and she sits next to me and we always talk to each other, as i said she laughs at the things i say and we talk about a lot. just the other day we spent the whole day together from 7 in the morning to almost 10 at night. then today its as if i wasnt alive, we barely spoke she said hi to me and hit me a few times but thats it. like the day i was with her she was always touching me, hugging me, laughing at me always asking where i am( we were with 2 other ppl, but she always hung around me) things like that, just 2day got me confused as if she really is interested in me or is just being nice? we can stare eye to eye at each other for a while, just randomly smile at each other, whats on her mind?I really like this girl, advice / help!?
Just be yourself. If she's interested, believe me you will know.
At the same time, don't limit yourself while you're waiting on her.
Have fun and enjoy these times, they go by pretty fast :)I really like this girl, advice / help!?
ummmmmmm...... i think u should talk 2 her and ask even though it feels really akward. she can't spend all her time w. u. she has other friends.
omg dis is weird but its exactly like that between my and my guy pal for a second there i thought you were him!
anyway there isn't much i can say coz im trying to figure this out too soz
but anyway ill try
ask her buds whats going on and maybe even ask her out
so what if u get rejected?
you can still be friends with her!
life is crazy and to match with our lives we have to do crazy things-im not saying jump off a cliff in your underwear and shout i love you im saying take a chance and hope things work out for the best
oh this is sooo easy if she is always staring at you like almost every minute be a man just ask her get her some flowers just make HER confused then when it hits the right moment she will ask you somthing and then you might have a chance to ask her out... i mean you have been knowing her for like ever maybe now it's the time to move up a step and ask her out on a date take her 2 a fancy resturant and see what happens...
Get to know her and then maybe ask her out. What do you have to loose?
Sounds like she's trying to play it cool so she doesn't look like a fool if you don't like her. She probably suspects you do, but if she spent the whole day apparently flirting and you didn't do anything about it, she may be getting doubts. So, ask her to do something with you and see what she does. One of you is eventually going to have to stop being a wuss and kiss the other! (This is much easier and less awkward than confessing to a crush.)
maybe, shes jus relizied her feelings for u. and shes not sure if u feel the same. try to pull her aside a talk to her a bout it. then go from there.
from the above said things its very clear dat u like her very much and she too likes u.. but u confused what she has in her mind right?? and u jus don wanna say i like u.. instead u try take her some place where u both can spend time alone and be casual to her and whil talkin to her look at her eyes for a while and her lips. this should repeat severral times. and while doing that u shuld be talkin abt her beauty and wat she likes.. and if u find she is comfortable with her, jus try kissing her... i don think she will refuse.... if she refused leave for the day and try someother day..... don give up... one day or the other she will be okay with it...
Moving for the first time.. Advice & Help!?
Well soon i'll be moving out for the first time, and moving up north, where i have some friends. Main reasonf ro moving is for independancy, and to go my own way. None of my brothers have moved out yet, and i'm the black sheep ;)
Anyway, moving into a shared house with 8 other people. Mixed genders, and they all sound very nice and friendly, but the problem is, i'm not too sure what to bring with me. The basic amentities (bath, shower, kitchen etc) are all shared, and so i'm not too sure what i should bring with me. Do i still need to bring basic kitchen things (like utensils, cutlery etc) with me, or not? The room i'll be moving into is fully furnished already..
So what are the things i need to take with me? what do you think?Moving for the first time.. Advice %26amp; Help!?
Anything and everything personal. And items you don't want to share with others. But it might do you some good to call and talk to your roommates to find out for sure if there is anything ';major'; you will need to provide for yourself. Good luck on the move. It's a big step. Congratulations!Moving for the first time.. Advice %26amp; Help!?
Bring something that will hold all your bathroom items so you can keep them in your room until you need them, that way your things are not in with the others causing less space.
You can bring utensils %26amp; cutlery, but be prepared to share them.
It might be best to wait and see what is really needed other then your personal items.
Anyway, moving into a shared house with 8 other people. Mixed genders, and they all sound very nice and friendly, but the problem is, i'm not too sure what to bring with me. The basic amentities (bath, shower, kitchen etc) are all shared, and so i'm not too sure what i should bring with me. Do i still need to bring basic kitchen things (like utensils, cutlery etc) with me, or not? The room i'll be moving into is fully furnished already..
So what are the things i need to take with me? what do you think?Moving for the first time.. Advice %26amp; Help!?
Anything and everything personal. And items you don't want to share with others. But it might do you some good to call and talk to your roommates to find out for sure if there is anything ';major'; you will need to provide for yourself. Good luck on the move. It's a big step. Congratulations!Moving for the first time.. Advice %26amp; Help!?
Bring something that will hold all your bathroom items so you can keep them in your room until you need them, that way your things are not in with the others causing less space.
You can bring utensils %26amp; cutlery, but be prepared to share them.
It might be best to wait and see what is really needed other then your personal items.
BOY TROUBLE! Girl and Boy Advice. help?!?
okay so i meet this guy about 2 months ago at a party. we hit it off at first and we were great. Hes 19 and im 16. we hungout at his friends house about 3 or more times. The more i get to know him the more protected he is. He was searching in my phone contacts about all these guys that were just my friends. and i had numbers written on my hand from school and he kept questioning me about it and called it! He can be super sweet at times but then just be selfish, and only want one thing. but then i started to get to know his Best Friend and hes sooo much cuter and sweeter.. and me and his BF get along alot better and can talk about stuff for hours. And im starting to like him. and i wouldn't mind going out with him... sooo i dont know what to do. and im scared if i tell his BF that i like him and not '; the guy im trying to hook up with'; then s*** will hit the fan and the other guy wont like me and im trying to dropp this guy and talk to his BF and i dnt know hows that going to go down and if his Best friend is gonna like me...
PLEASE RESPOND IF READ!
-Thanks
:)BOY TROUBLE! Girl and Boy Advice. help?!?
I don't suggest you hooking up with either one of them...
PLEASE RESPOND IF READ!
-Thanks
:)BOY TROUBLE! Girl and Boy Advice. help?!?
I don't suggest you hooking up with either one of them...
I need flirting advice (serious answers only) Can you help?
I like this one guy who I think might have a not serious g/f. I want him to understand that I like him. What should I wear and how do I flirt. This is the first time that I have encountered this problem.I need flirting advice (serious answers only) Can you help?
just be normal
don't try to impress him all the time
and don't act desperate
be yourself
maybe a nice shirt,
or even look in to his interests
and if you have similar interests reflect that in your clothing. ask him if you can sit with him during lunch. if he says he is having a problem with homework offer to help. just be a friend and be nice. and not hard of course accident nudge him with your foot. and at lunch brush your hand across his. once to get a guy i hired ( yes payed him) to ask this guy if he liked me! and then the guy asked would you ever like her? sometimes bringing in backup is good.
i wish u luck!I need flirting advice (serious answers only) Can you help?
just wear nice clothes.
or whatever shows your personality.
and also just play with your hair and stuff.
smile and laugh a lot.
that shows him that you're into him.
and stuff.
and if he likes you,
he'll end his girlfriend.
for a more serious relationship with you.
you try to wear the sexy habit, but attention ! not the churlish habit, you smile fleshly and to be always kind then you dare to invite him in town at dinner.....
dont wear too shwy shirts just flirty shirts. No graphic tees. sit next to him at lunch
just be normal
don't try to impress him all the time
and don't act desperate
be yourself
maybe a nice shirt,
or even look in to his interests
and if you have similar interests reflect that in your clothing. ask him if you can sit with him during lunch. if he says he is having a problem with homework offer to help. just be a friend and be nice. and not hard of course accident nudge him with your foot. and at lunch brush your hand across his. once to get a guy i hired ( yes payed him) to ask this guy if he liked me! and then the guy asked would you ever like her? sometimes bringing in backup is good.
i wish u luck!I need flirting advice (serious answers only) Can you help?
just wear nice clothes.
or whatever shows your personality.
and also just play with your hair and stuff.
smile and laugh a lot.
that shows him that you're into him.
and stuff.
and if he likes you,
he'll end his girlfriend.
for a more serious relationship with you.
you try to wear the sexy habit, but attention ! not the churlish habit, you smile fleshly and to be always kind then you dare to invite him in town at dinner.....
dont wear too shwy shirts just flirty shirts. No graphic tees. sit next to him at lunch
Need your help and advice concerning buy here pay here lots?
Here is my problem. I recently had to get another vehicle, for work. Due to past credit problems, charge-offs, and repos I had to go this route. Keeping my job was important to me, so at the time I had no choice. Now my eyes are open to what a ripp-off this is. Completed my downpayment of $800 although I told them I only had $300 to put down, which they accepted. My payments are $169.77 twice a month, for a 2000 Saturn that had 105,000+ miles on it. Will be paying on this car for 3yrs. After finally ';really reading'; the contract I was all but happy about my choice. How do I get out of this situation legally? Know defaulting will not help my credit situation, but it's already bad. What can I do? Am really in need of some sound advice, cause this is really hurting me financially.Need your help and advice concerning buy here pay here lots?
buy here pay here lots usually do not help or hurt your credit score. they have thier own rules. sme will not even let you take the car out of state for a road trip without defaulting on your loan. my suggestion would be do what you need to do. if the car is giving you problems save your payments from it and drive it till they come get it. as this is what they hope for in the first place. the down payment that you paid is what they have in the car in the first place any other money is just a bonus to them. good luckNeed your help and advice concerning buy here pay here lots?
You signed a contract. No one held a gun to your head to force you to do so. You did it of your own free will.
You did not qualify for conventional financing ';due to past credit problems, charge-offs, and repos';. You are a high risk borrower. You have a history of not paying your bills. The dealer was willing to take a chance on you when most others would not!!
They were able to work out a deal to get you into a vehicle, which allowed you to keep your job. You had to pay a higher rate, because you are a higher risk! If you default on this car, the dealer will take it back. Most likely they will sue you, and garnishee your wages.
Did you sign a conditional sales contract, or a finance contract. If it was a finance contract, you will be liable for all costs of collection, and any deficiency balance when the car is sold. With a conditional sales contract, you will be liable for the total amount financed, and any costs of collection, with no credit for the sale of the reposessed vehicle.
Pay your payments on time. This will help you repair your credit rating. You may feel you paid too much, but you at least have a car. If you had been responsble with your finances in the first place, you would not be in this situation!!
check your local paper for a used car from a person selling one. i could have bought that car you decribed at a aution for less than your down payment.look for a elderly persons car.that needs to stop driving.they have usally been maintained well. i would find another car.after i did i would let that car go back.there are a lot of good resonaly priced cars out there.besides that car would be really lucky to make it the 3 years anyway.then you would pay for a dead horse anyway. is there a special model your looking for?
Like someone else said, they don't follow the same rules as banks......But remember they don't follow the same rules as banks. I don't think they'll repo the car as easy as the bank, they want their money, it may include a bat.
if you dont make a payment, be ready to walk, the other guy is right, they are not like banks. most of the time the owner is right there on monday morning, and who ever hasnt paid will walk. they are not going to sit around and listen to excuses from some one with bad credit.You have allready proven your ability not to pay, they will take that into account and do what they need to do. SO BE SURE! remember you are not the first person to do this to this lot.
I would let them repo that crap car and get out of that crap of a deal fast. Do you realize that at the end of this car deal you will have paid $12,250.00 for a car that is worth around $6500.00. And it you are 2 hours late on one of your payments they will come and get your car and you'll lose everything you paid out.
You got screwed. Let them repo this car and learn a thing or two about contracts. Next time stay away from these crooks and take your $800 and pay cash for a car.
buy here pay here lots usually do not help or hurt your credit score. they have thier own rules. sme will not even let you take the car out of state for a road trip without defaulting on your loan. my suggestion would be do what you need to do. if the car is giving you problems save your payments from it and drive it till they come get it. as this is what they hope for in the first place. the down payment that you paid is what they have in the car in the first place any other money is just a bonus to them. good luckNeed your help and advice concerning buy here pay here lots?
You signed a contract. No one held a gun to your head to force you to do so. You did it of your own free will.
You did not qualify for conventional financing ';due to past credit problems, charge-offs, and repos';. You are a high risk borrower. You have a history of not paying your bills. The dealer was willing to take a chance on you when most others would not!!
They were able to work out a deal to get you into a vehicle, which allowed you to keep your job. You had to pay a higher rate, because you are a higher risk! If you default on this car, the dealer will take it back. Most likely they will sue you, and garnishee your wages.
Did you sign a conditional sales contract, or a finance contract. If it was a finance contract, you will be liable for all costs of collection, and any deficiency balance when the car is sold. With a conditional sales contract, you will be liable for the total amount financed, and any costs of collection, with no credit for the sale of the reposessed vehicle.
Pay your payments on time. This will help you repair your credit rating. You may feel you paid too much, but you at least have a car. If you had been responsble with your finances in the first place, you would not be in this situation!!
check your local paper for a used car from a person selling one. i could have bought that car you decribed at a aution for less than your down payment.look for a elderly persons car.that needs to stop driving.they have usally been maintained well. i would find another car.after i did i would let that car go back.there are a lot of good resonaly priced cars out there.besides that car would be really lucky to make it the 3 years anyway.then you would pay for a dead horse anyway. is there a special model your looking for?
Like someone else said, they don't follow the same rules as banks......But remember they don't follow the same rules as banks. I don't think they'll repo the car as easy as the bank, they want their money, it may include a bat.
if you dont make a payment, be ready to walk, the other guy is right, they are not like banks. most of the time the owner is right there on monday morning, and who ever hasnt paid will walk. they are not going to sit around and listen to excuses from some one with bad credit.You have allready proven your ability not to pay, they will take that into account and do what they need to do. SO BE SURE! remember you are not the first person to do this to this lot.
I would let them repo that crap car and get out of that crap of a deal fast. Do you realize that at the end of this car deal you will have paid $12,250.00 for a car that is worth around $6500.00. And it you are 2 hours late on one of your payments they will come and get your car and you'll lose everything you paid out.
You got screwed. Let them repo this car and learn a thing or two about contracts. Next time stay away from these crooks and take your $800 and pay cash for a car.
I need help figuring out how to make it easier for us...any advice helps!?
Im dating this guy and I've liked him for SO long. He said the same about me. About 6 months ago I was dating one of his best friends and I was torn up when we broke up. Idk how to explain the amazing feeling I got with this guy. we broke up and can never get back together, long story. This guy was ALWAYS busy but he always made time to talk and spend time with me. I feel the same connection but even better with my boyfriend now. He makes me so happy and I can't wait to see where our relationship goes. However my boyfriend is even busier and has strict parents. See, I'm outta high school but hes still in high school. Hes really mature and he understands a lot more about love and life that most guys his age don't. Now my question is... he honestly NEVER has time to talk or hang out. I told him that his family and busy schedule come first and I should never be put first. We've only been dating officially for a week but idk what to do. I'm trying to be patient but its hard. I wanna be able to spend time with my boyfriend. We're both trying to figure out ways to help... make it better? Not so much change his schedule but idk... I dont wanna break up with him because I can see a good relationship. I just need help please?!I need help figuring out how to make it easier for us...any advice helps!?
I'm assuming he is a senior, so my advice would be to just be patient with him until he graduates. If you really like him and know things will go well with him in the future, then don't let him go. Just be patient.detox cleansing
I'm assuming he is a senior, so my advice would be to just be patient with him until he graduates. If you really like him and know things will go well with him in the future, then don't let him go. Just be patient.
Nanny/babysitter pay rate advice, help?
I just moved down to live with my mom here in Austin, TX. Instead of me going out getting a regular job, such as back at Texas Roadhouse as a food server, I am stuck having to babysit her 6 year old twins (my half brother and half sister) everyday. 3-8 on weekdays, 8-8 on Saturday, and 11-7 on Sunday. I get paid $150 a week working 45 hours, which adds up to less than $3.50 an hour. She definitely has money and knows I am not okay with the price I am getting paid. Any suggestions please on how I could try to talk her into paying me at a higher rate? This is ridiculous. Nanny/babysitter pay rate advice, help?
You have free rent and utilities living with her I assume - so you're actually not getting such a bad deal.
You have free rent and utilities living with her I assume - so you're actually not getting such a bad deal.
I need some guy advice?????????HELP PLEASE!!!!?
okay so theres this guy i like and i told him that i liked him and i talked to him the other day and he talked back and whatever and then my friend said today i turned the corner and ran like kinda into him and my friend said that when he passed me he told his friend thats her thats her. I didnt hear him becaus ei was gone but my friend who was behind me said he said but i dont know for sure!!!! I really like this guy ALOT!!! ANY advice AT ALL would be GREATLY APPRECIATED :o) thanks soooo muchI need some guy advice?????????HELP PLEASE!!!!?
not real sure what you are needing advice about. are you wondering whether you should believe your friend? wondering if he told his friends who you were is not the real question or concern. the real question/concern is, ';why is he telling his friends who you are?'; (because he likes you too or pointing out his stalker). since he already knows that you like him hopefully soon you'll know the answer to that question. hopefully he likes you too, so try to be a little patient and not turn into the stalker. good luck!!
not real sure what you are needing advice about. are you wondering whether you should believe your friend? wondering if he told his friends who you were is not the real question or concern. the real question/concern is, ';why is he telling his friends who you are?'; (because he likes you too or pointing out his stalker). since he already knows that you like him hopefully soon you'll know the answer to that question. hopefully he likes you too, so try to be a little patient and not turn into the stalker. good luck!!
16th b-day party advice help!?
Ok WeLL MY B-DAY IS NEXT MONTH AND IVE ALWAYS WANTED TO THROW A REALLY BIG PARTY WITH LOTS OF PEOPL(BUHT WHO WOULDNT) ...SO ANYWAYZ IM PLANNING ON GETTING A PARTY BUS AND IT EVENTUALLY TAKING US TO MY HOUSE WHERE THE REAL PARTY WILL BE BUT THE THING IS MY DAD JUST GOT A NEW HOUSE BUT ITS KIND OF FAR FROM WHERE EERYBODY LIVES AND MY HOUSE IS A GOOD SIZE BUT I LIKE MY DADS BETTER LOL ..THE THING IS THE RIDE SITUATION IS A LITTLE CONFUSING AND I NEED SOME ADVICE AS TO HOW IM GOING TO PLAN THIS WHOLE THING OUT SO THAT EVERYONE I WANT TO COME CAN COME TO THERE CONVENIENCE...ALSO FOODS AND PARTY THEMES AND ALL THAT GOOD STUFF16th b-day party advice help!?
Teen birthday
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I need some guy advice, Help me? What should I do?
I went to this football game with my friend Jill.
Jill's little brother, Bob, went walking around the field.
We did to.
Later we me and Jill saw Bob and Bob had a friend with him.
Billy is his name and he is in the 7th grade.
I am in the 8th grade.
But I couldnt stay away from Billy! Even though he's a grade younger than me!
He let me wear his jacket and we had tons in common.
He accepted my flaws and before the end of the night he stuck his arm around me and said 'Will you go out with me?'
I couldnt believe all this, thought I saw it coming.
I said 'I don;'t Know!' and ran.
I sent him a myspace friend request.
I wish I wouldve said yes.
What if he wont take me back!?
Plus- at my school its not cool for an 8th grader to be with a 7th grader. But I really like him!
Whta if I'm a loser?
Whta do I do!?
What should I say?
鈾ristenI need some guy advice, Help me? What should I do?
Follow your heart not other peoples expectations of you.
Age is but a number, and so is a grade level.
If you want to be with him and the feeling is mutual, I say go for it.
Do what's best for you!
d'o)I need some guy advice, Help me? What should I do?
Tell him you needed time to think about it and that you decided you want to. Your grade doesn't really matter. When I was in High School, my Junior year, I dated a freshman. That would have been like dating a sixth grader for you. No one really cares. If people start to make fun of you it's because they're jealous you're in a relationship and they're not. (Kissing him wouldn't hurt trying to make up for that night either)
Claim to be a non conformist, then you can get away with what ever your heart desires.
When you are young, that is the time to find out what you may or may not like in the future = younger or older men.
If you like this guy, then other peoples opinion shouldn't matter :)
Just start a conversation with him, and talk about that night and what happened. If you still like him make your decision from there. :)
you should go to his house, knock on the door and say ';yes, i'd love to go out';, then kiss him on the lips....i guarantee he won't get mad at you anymore.
be brave kristen, good luck!
Jill's little brother, Bob, went walking around the field.
We did to.
Later we me and Jill saw Bob and Bob had a friend with him.
Billy is his name and he is in the 7th grade.
I am in the 8th grade.
But I couldnt stay away from Billy! Even though he's a grade younger than me!
He let me wear his jacket and we had tons in common.
He accepted my flaws and before the end of the night he stuck his arm around me and said 'Will you go out with me?'
I couldnt believe all this, thought I saw it coming.
I said 'I don;'t Know!' and ran.
I sent him a myspace friend request.
I wish I wouldve said yes.
What if he wont take me back!?
Plus- at my school its not cool for an 8th grader to be with a 7th grader. But I really like him!
Whta if I'm a loser?
Whta do I do!?
What should I say?
鈾ristenI need some guy advice, Help me? What should I do?
Follow your heart not other peoples expectations of you.
Age is but a number, and so is a grade level.
If you want to be with him and the feeling is mutual, I say go for it.
Do what's best for you!
d'o)I need some guy advice, Help me? What should I do?
Tell him you needed time to think about it and that you decided you want to. Your grade doesn't really matter. When I was in High School, my Junior year, I dated a freshman. That would have been like dating a sixth grader for you. No one really cares. If people start to make fun of you it's because they're jealous you're in a relationship and they're not. (Kissing him wouldn't hurt trying to make up for that night either)
Claim to be a non conformist, then you can get away with what ever your heart desires.
When you are young, that is the time to find out what you may or may not like in the future = younger or older men.
If you like this guy, then other peoples opinion shouldn't matter :)
Just start a conversation with him, and talk about that night and what happened. If you still like him make your decision from there. :)
you should go to his house, knock on the door and say ';yes, i'd love to go out';, then kiss him on the lips....i guarantee he won't get mad at you anymore.
be brave kristen, good luck!
Help advice needed please.?
wife has proper flu, kids have chest infections, all on antibiotics and very poorly.
Am doing everything not very well. Caused a massive bustup with my wife last night. Her flu is worse today.Help advice needed please.?
You've got your work cut out bless. Keep plodding on. Try flowers for your wife and try explaining that you are trying your best. Hope you all feel better soon xHelp advice needed please.?
You won't be able to do anything right. Give her lots of tlc , could you call her/your mum for help?
Time to take everyone to the doctor if they are not getting well.
What do you mean you are ';doing everything not very well';? If you mean taking care of all of them, it is pretty easy; hot soup, tea, kleenex, they need to rest, make sure they drink lots of water. If you aren't taking a few days off of work, looks like you better at this point.
take everyone a cup of tea,and get your wife some flowers,hope this helps,oh, and a cuddle if she will let you.
Try doing perhaps 2 things very well rather than everything not very well!!!! Ask your wife what are priority jobs and just do them. Keep up the good work, she'll love you when she gets better! Good luck
I wouldn't take it too much to heart, the bustup with the wife last night was more illness driven. Wives usually hate to be out of it, sickly and down while the house and kids go to toothpicks. The most important thing is to keep the nursing up. You try to keep the kitchen and bathroom clean, relatively speaking, and let the dust bunnies replicate under the sofa for the moment. Keep pushing the fluids to everyone as best you can. Canned broth based soups are the best bet for food, along with tea, crackers and sympathy. Ask the wife what she wants done, so far as things she feels must be done to keep up. Give her TLC, accept that sick people are usually not at their personal best, not very tolerant, and sometimes downright ugly to nurse. I know, I'm a nurse. And mom of four, and when I am sick, I'm plenty ugly. It also doesn't hurt if you also tip your hat to her and admit to her that you admire the job she does day in and out. Nothing wrong with simply telling her you can't do what she does as well as she does. You just give it your best shot, hang in there, and pretty soon things will return to normal. And when they do, a word to the wise husband- don't ever admit that she was a right booger while she was sick. Just smile, hug her, and tell her how glad you are she's mended.detox cleansing
Am doing everything not very well. Caused a massive bustup with my wife last night. Her flu is worse today.Help advice needed please.?
You've got your work cut out bless. Keep plodding on. Try flowers for your wife and try explaining that you are trying your best. Hope you all feel better soon xHelp advice needed please.?
You won't be able to do anything right. Give her lots of tlc , could you call her/your mum for help?
Time to take everyone to the doctor if they are not getting well.
What do you mean you are ';doing everything not very well';? If you mean taking care of all of them, it is pretty easy; hot soup, tea, kleenex, they need to rest, make sure they drink lots of water. If you aren't taking a few days off of work, looks like you better at this point.
take everyone a cup of tea,and get your wife some flowers,hope this helps,oh, and a cuddle if she will let you.
Try doing perhaps 2 things very well rather than everything not very well!!!! Ask your wife what are priority jobs and just do them. Keep up the good work, she'll love you when she gets better! Good luck
I wouldn't take it too much to heart, the bustup with the wife last night was more illness driven. Wives usually hate to be out of it, sickly and down while the house and kids go to toothpicks. The most important thing is to keep the nursing up. You try to keep the kitchen and bathroom clean, relatively speaking, and let the dust bunnies replicate under the sofa for the moment. Keep pushing the fluids to everyone as best you can. Canned broth based soups are the best bet for food, along with tea, crackers and sympathy. Ask the wife what she wants done, so far as things she feels must be done to keep up. Give her TLC, accept that sick people are usually not at their personal best, not very tolerant, and sometimes downright ugly to nurse. I know, I'm a nurse. And mom of four, and when I am sick, I'm plenty ugly. It also doesn't hurt if you also tip your hat to her and admit to her that you admire the job she does day in and out. Nothing wrong with simply telling her you can't do what she does as well as she does. You just give it your best shot, hang in there, and pretty soon things will return to normal. And when they do, a word to the wise husband- don't ever admit that she was a right booger while she was sick. Just smile, hug her, and tell her how glad you are she's mended.
Help - advice for someone?
i know someone that been labeled mentally impaired . he is not mentally impaired . he got a 90 in his English test he Always gets a passing grades those are passing grades. his mom thinks he intelligent. if his mom thinks he intelligent why she don't want to take the label off do you think it makes senses . he is not disabled mentally . my friend want to prove those doctors wrongHelp - advice for someone?
group some facts. mayb his grades or something like that??? PROVE THEM WRONG!!!! :D
good luck!!! hope this will help!!! :)
~KaLi~
group some facts. mayb his grades or something like that??? PROVE THEM WRONG!!!! :D
good luck!!! hope this will help!!! :)
~KaLi~
Help? advice for freshman?
im moving from hawaii to oregon
im going to be a freshman and i am soo nervous
i dont have a single friend at this school
any advice on what to doHelp? advice for freshman?
just try talking to people and being friendly
chances are alot of freshmen are nervous just like you.
don't ask seniors for directions though or get in their way.
but trust me after the first day its gunna be a breeze. even the first day is easy its just boring though.
im going to be a freshman and i am soo nervous
i dont have a single friend at this school
any advice on what to doHelp? advice for freshman?
just try talking to people and being friendly
chances are alot of freshmen are nervous just like you.
don't ask seniors for directions though or get in their way.
but trust me after the first day its gunna be a breeze. even the first day is easy its just boring though.
Help advice?? not sure wot to do?
i no it isnt a big deal but i dont like it wen people make a big deal my face is well not perfect im 14 and have quite abit of spots me and my friends have always been anti makeup and i feel much more confident and look pretty with foundation on if i wear it will they understand wot shall i doHelp advice?? not sure wot to do?
Do what makes u feel comfortable. if a little bit of foudation gives u more confidense then u will probably look better. i feel like if i have more confidense then i just carry my self better and give off a happy pretty glow. Tell ur friends ur not changing and u arent trying to be fake, but u just need a little confidense boost. plus lots of 14 year olds wear make up and lots dont! so its all up to u! :)Help advice?? not sure wot to do?
they should understand. wear some foundation if you want to. its hardly noticable if done right. also, if you want, you can just do a spot treatment. find a foundation that matches your skin and apply only where you have t hese spots.
if its acne that you have, and want to clear up your skin, then use an antiacne wash at night.
youll be fine!
good luck!
i used to be the same exact way
your friends should understand
andd
use the bare minerals foundation i use it and i love it and it doesn't cause your spots to get worse and it also looks very natural unlike most foundations that looked caked on
what moisturiser do you use ? if you are going to wear foundation you need to invest in a good moisturiser - or get your parents to!!
Liz Earle skin care is what you need!
yeah course they will, they are your friends. It doesn't matter, make up doesn't meen your 'plastic' or whatever it helps some people's confidence and your friends should want you to be happy and confident with yourself.
Wearing foundation clogs up your pores, and if you have acne, it will make it worse because your skin can not breathe. It will cause you to get more pimples.
just do what you feel comfortable with if theyre good friends they should understand your decision and be ok with it
Dont worry most the time u cant tell if u have foundation. btw it cuses spots to get worst
it should be your own decision weather or not you want to not theirs
Do what makes u feel comfortable. if a little bit of foudation gives u more confidense then u will probably look better. i feel like if i have more confidense then i just carry my self better and give off a happy pretty glow. Tell ur friends ur not changing and u arent trying to be fake, but u just need a little confidense boost. plus lots of 14 year olds wear make up and lots dont! so its all up to u! :)Help advice?? not sure wot to do?
they should understand. wear some foundation if you want to. its hardly noticable if done right. also, if you want, you can just do a spot treatment. find a foundation that matches your skin and apply only where you have t hese spots.
if its acne that you have, and want to clear up your skin, then use an antiacne wash at night.
youll be fine!
good luck!
i used to be the same exact way
your friends should understand
andd
use the bare minerals foundation i use it and i love it and it doesn't cause your spots to get worse and it also looks very natural unlike most foundations that looked caked on
what moisturiser do you use ? if you are going to wear foundation you need to invest in a good moisturiser - or get your parents to!!
Liz Earle skin care is what you need!
yeah course they will, they are your friends. It doesn't matter, make up doesn't meen your 'plastic' or whatever it helps some people's confidence and your friends should want you to be happy and confident with yourself.
Wearing foundation clogs up your pores, and if you have acne, it will make it worse because your skin can not breathe. It will cause you to get more pimples.
just do what you feel comfortable with if theyre good friends they should understand your decision and be ok with it
Dont worry most the time u cant tell if u have foundation. btw it cuses spots to get worst
it should be your own decision weather or not you want to not theirs
Help! advice about arm hair!!?
ok girls
i have dark arm hairs.
and lite arms.
what do i do???Help! advice about arm hair!!?
shave your arms.. i do. arm hair is gross.. and really not attractiveHelp! advice about arm hair!!?
Use No! No! - it is sold at Sephora for $250 - a bit pricey, but well worth it.
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I have the same problem as you. Luckily, there is a product called Jolen. It's a cream that you rub on your arms or anywhere with excess dark hair, and it bleaches the hair on your arms to a light blonde. It lasts a couple weeks, and it works amazing! You can buy it at any drugstores, I bought it at CVS. Hope this helped!
leave it be. noone cares about arm hair seriously. i'm a young teenager and people dont really look at your arms and judge them.
Seriously dont worry.
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i have dark arm hairs.
and lite arms.
what do i do???Help! advice about arm hair!!?
shave your arms.. i do. arm hair is gross.. and really not attractiveHelp! advice about arm hair!!?
Use No! No! - it is sold at Sephora for $250 - a bit pricey, but well worth it.
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I have the same problem as you. Luckily, there is a product called Jolen. It's a cream that you rub on your arms or anywhere with excess dark hair, and it bleaches the hair on your arms to a light blonde. It lasts a couple weeks, and it works amazing! You can buy it at any drugstores, I bought it at CVS. Hope this helped!
leave it be. noone cares about arm hair seriously. i'm a young teenager and people dont really look at your arms and judge them.
Seriously dont worry.
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Help..!!??advice plz...?
ok so i've never had cramps...but some how like 2 months ago i started and i cant do anythig i mean i sit and my tummy hurts i had it..and plus it really HURTS...ALOT AND its uncomfortable....plz any adive on how to calm the cramps down or relax plz...thanksHelp..!!??advice plz...?
Take Midol or pamprin! You are talkin about period cramps right?? Don`t take midol or pamprin if your not on your period!Help..!!??advice plz...?
Lay on your back and put your knees up while taking deep breathes...it helps tons.detox cleansing
Take Midol or pamprin! You are talkin about period cramps right?? Don`t take midol or pamprin if your not on your period!Help..!!??advice plz...?
Lay on your back and put your knees up while taking deep breathes...it helps tons.
I need some Advice, please help?
i just became president of a new club, and I'm not completely sure how to run it. the club is suppose to help young black males graduate. they're asking for a vision and how do i plan to help it grow? any ideas?I need some Advice, please help?
start by getting some statistics, figures about how many young black men currently graduate. How much would you like that number to rise? How can you target that particular group, to encourage them.
Research to find out why the numbers might be lower than say, white males in the same group?
Ask your members what specific issues they have? What specific help might they need to help you reach the figures you would like to see?
Ask for help from people involved with the young black male community.e
try to create a team, rather than a 'club' with you as the leader, everyone likes to feel part of something, and working together might create a team spirit that will encourage the members to work towards your vision
start by getting some statistics, figures about how many young black men currently graduate. How much would you like that number to rise? How can you target that particular group, to encourage them.
Research to find out why the numbers might be lower than say, white males in the same group?
Ask your members what specific issues they have? What specific help might they need to help you reach the figures you would like to see?
Ask for help from people involved with the young black male community.e
try to create a team, rather than a 'club' with you as the leader, everyone likes to feel part of something, and working together might create a team spirit that will encourage the members to work towards your vision
Help advice???
I am 15 ......How my boobs can grow bigger???Help advice???
If u r alone during nights in ur bed..try to stimulate ursef by pressing and rubbing on ur boobs. there are some breast creams also in market.u can choose one.Help advice???
If you are underweight, then putting on a few kilos/pounds will help increase the size of your breasts.
As you mature, your breasts will generally get a little larger and then when you're pregnant for the first time your breasts can dramatically increase in size.
Otherwise, you can either try a good push up bra or surgery when your body has fully matured and you aren't still happy with the size of your breasts.
Try not to worry about it too much though. I was a loose b cup until the age of 24 and then went up to a c cup with my first pregnancy and now am a full d cup. Sometimes being that way is annoying too because they get in my way.
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If u r alone during nights in ur bed..try to stimulate ursef by pressing and rubbing on ur boobs. there are some breast creams also in market.u can choose one.Help advice???
If you are underweight, then putting on a few kilos/pounds will help increase the size of your breasts.
As you mature, your breasts will generally get a little larger and then when you're pregnant for the first time your breasts can dramatically increase in size.
Otherwise, you can either try a good push up bra or surgery when your body has fully matured and you aren't still happy with the size of your breasts.
Try not to worry about it too much though. I was a loose b cup until the age of 24 and then went up to a c cup with my first pregnancy and now am a full d cup. Sometimes being that way is annoying too because they get in my way.
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Help? Advice? Anything?
The last time I had my period was August 16th. Me and my Fiance had sex on the 17th, 18th, 19th, 20th, 21st, 22nd, 25th, and 27th. Yesterday morning I was experiencing brown watery blood? I thought my period was coming then Last night I was experiencing pink blood? I thought it was my period, but this morning is was completely gone. Implantation bleeding or has anyone experienced this? Hopefully my period doesn't come.Help? Advice? Anything?
Hi Sweety,
You probably did not have implantation bleeding that early on unless you ovulated very early in your cycle. Implantation bleeding usually takes place around 5-7 days after ovulation, so you would have ovulated just a week after your period, and most women who have regular cycles ovulate around 2 weeks after ovulation. I'm not saying it is impossible, but it is unlikely. If you usually ovulate around CD9, then it may be possible, but like I said that would be a very early ovulation. Hope that helps.
BABY DUST!!!Help? Advice? Anything?
this is normal. your body is letting out a discharge that may be irregular, but necessary.
hey 1st things 1st... dont worrie nice deep brethe in... your absooltly fine x... this discharge is just your bodys waii of saying HOLD UP! uv had it alot latley and your bodeiiis just leaving a bitta discharge dw about anythink YOull be abslootly fine quite normal
hope it helps (and congrats about ur fiance hope wedding gose well)
xx Amber xx
could've been old blood that was trapped by all the sex and then it could be implantation. keep us informed.
Hi Sweety,
You probably did not have implantation bleeding that early on unless you ovulated very early in your cycle. Implantation bleeding usually takes place around 5-7 days after ovulation, so you would have ovulated just a week after your period, and most women who have regular cycles ovulate around 2 weeks after ovulation. I'm not saying it is impossible, but it is unlikely. If you usually ovulate around CD9, then it may be possible, but like I said that would be a very early ovulation. Hope that helps.
BABY DUST!!!Help? Advice? Anything?
this is normal. your body is letting out a discharge that may be irregular, but necessary.
hey 1st things 1st... dont worrie nice deep brethe in... your absooltly fine x... this discharge is just your bodys waii of saying HOLD UP! uv had it alot latley and your bodeiiis just leaving a bitta discharge dw about anythink YOull be abslootly fine quite normal
hope it helps (and congrats about ur fiance hope wedding gose well)
xx Amber xx
could've been old blood that was trapped by all the sex and then it could be implantation. keep us informed.
I need some planning advice, help please!?
My friend is 19 and I will be 18 really soon. When I do turn 18 over summer, me and my friend plan to accomplish something big, which is bike (not motorbike, just a regular bike) from washington state to LA. We've done some calculations and it seems that if we keep going a certain, and doable, amount of miles each day, we can make it there on the time we expect to be there. We'd start collecting money now and by then, make sure we have a nice good amount on ourselves by that time. This is something I feel like I need to do in my life, it'd be complicated to explain how and why and everything, I'm committed to it though. We're training and conditioning these days right now for it on bike also. Is there anything I can know about doing something like this, like maybe someone out there has a long trip tale they can share to offer advice or anything? Or anything I can just know that could help out?I need some planning advice, help please!?
It's good that someone your age has a goal like that :)
My only advice, since I live in a family of bikers, is that you work on building up your lung strength. Cause traveling that far can take a tole on you. And make sure to keep your self in peak physical condition... So eat healthy, ride around as much as you can where you live, and keep yourself hydrated on your trip
other then that you sound like your set! :)I need some planning advice, help please!?
happy trails! lmao good luck.
ur gona need it=)
I'm kinda envious... you guys are living out my bike dream! I've been planning for years now (but time isn't in my favor) to bike the Pacific Coast Highway. The Pacific Coast Highway, also known as Highway 101, runs the entire length of Washington, Oregon and California. Most cyclists start in Tillamook, Oregon and go from north to south to put the winds at their backs. There are books out there that you can buy or borrow from the library, which have experiences of many other bikers who have gone all the way from Washington to California or even Mexico. I would elect to camp whenever possible to cut down costs. I've referenced a few websites, hope it helps! You'll have to read-up by yourselves and become familiar with what it is that you want to see and make plans accordingly. :)
On a side note, you have to be very alert and prepared to bike the PCH... there have been rare cases of bikers ending up in motor vehicle-related accidents, especially as you get closer to LA.
It's good that someone your age has a goal like that :)
My only advice, since I live in a family of bikers, is that you work on building up your lung strength. Cause traveling that far can take a tole on you. And make sure to keep your self in peak physical condition... So eat healthy, ride around as much as you can where you live, and keep yourself hydrated on your trip
other then that you sound like your set! :)I need some planning advice, help please!?
happy trails! lmao good luck.
ur gona need it=)
I'm kinda envious... you guys are living out my bike dream! I've been planning for years now (but time isn't in my favor) to bike the Pacific Coast Highway. The Pacific Coast Highway, also known as Highway 101, runs the entire length of Washington, Oregon and California. Most cyclists start in Tillamook, Oregon and go from north to south to put the winds at their backs. There are books out there that you can buy or borrow from the library, which have experiences of many other bikers who have gone all the way from Washington to California or even Mexico. I would elect to camp whenever possible to cut down costs. I've referenced a few websites, hope it helps! You'll have to read-up by yourselves and become familiar with what it is that you want to see and make plans accordingly. :)
On a side note, you have to be very alert and prepared to bike the PCH... there have been rare cases of bikers ending up in motor vehicle-related accidents, especially as you get closer to LA.
I NEED URGET CREDIT ADVICE!! HeLP!?
Okay, I am 19. I have 2 credit cards that I got just to build my credit which WAS going perfect.
My mom has her own problems with WAMU. She owes them $13,000. Since she is very sick, she put me on her card so I could talk to wamu for her about her debt, etc...
I just got my first credit score and WAMU is on it. she is about to declare bankruptcy and i am scared and sick to my stomach thinking my credit is going to be smashed, i wont be able to get a phone, apartment, car, anything HELP.
Wamu does not communicate with me, no matter how nice or how demanding I am. They are a bunch of indians that only repeat what there computer says, they do not help, they do not listen, its worthless to even call them unless i could call some sort of actual corp. office, not the damn Indian lines.
Who do I call? What will happen? Someone please shed some (good) light on the situation. Thank you very much for any answers that help me. I am in serious worry.I NEED URGET CREDIT ADVICE!! HeLP!?
If she added you as an authorized buyer, you are not responsible. Being an authorized buyer is reported on your credit report though. It is not supposed to affect your credit score, but I have seen cases where it does. Call the companies, ask for a supervisor--explain you want your name removed and did not authorize it. Dispute on your credit report also. Her bankruptcy will not affect your credit at all. The only way any of this can affect you, is if you had joint accounts together. I don't understand why they would have added you as an authorized buyer though--it should only show in their notes that they have authorization to speak to you regarding her debt. Keep on top of this and good luck!!! ***I NEED URGET CREDIT ADVICE!! HeLP!?
I don't know how she put you on her card but you need to get off of it. If you are getting nowhere on the phone, go to a branch in person and explain that you need help.
If your mom is very sick and wants you to handle her affairs, she should give you power of attorney, not add you to accounts.
I hope you are able to extricate yourself from this. If she is going to declare bankruptcy, I assume she has an attorney. You should go with her and speak to the attorney about the situation right away.
Good luck.
Hi,
I used ';Credit Solution'; to settle my debt and avoid bankruptcy.They managed to reduce my debt up to 58%.I came across this company on NBC News Special Edition.Check it out here:
http://memurl.com/furetu
I hope your mom put you on the account strictly as an authorized user and not as a joint user.
If she put you on as an AU, have yourself removed immediately.
If she put you on as a joint, you're screwed. You will be liable for the account.
When you call and get an overseas rep, demand to speak to an american supervisor that is in the U.S. (yes, you have that right)
If she is planning on defaulting and going bankrupt, I don't know what you are trying to get done by talking to them so I can't say much more than I already have.
Except to repeat what I mentioned above - get your name off the account as fast as you can.
I hope your mom feels better soon.
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Unless you have a thick file and other credit cards with very high credit limits and low utilization - then yes, that card is hurting your scores by raising your utilization.
One of the better utilization percentages is to use 30% or less of your overall and individual credit limits.
The ideal utilization is 10% or less.
Plus, if she is late or just stops paying , that will kill your scores.
It looks like (for once) everyone is on the same page on what to do! Nice job!
I will only add that you must send the credit bureau a dispute letter, and state that this debt is not yours.
Can I also assume that this is in the hands of a collection agency? Or is WAMU still controlling it? Either way, send them a ';demand to validate'; letter. Tell them you are not a joint user or co-signer, and unless they can supply you with a copy of a signed contract they are strongly advised to delete this from your credit records.
I'm also doing some studying on another tactic.....send a copy of the dispute letter to WAMU's ';Registered Agent';, and include a unfiled small claims lawsuit. The ';registered agent'; is the person designated to receive lawsuits for the corporation. You will get much more attention from this person then some rubber-stamp monkey in their collections department.
I am assuming that you are an authorized user under your mom's credit card. If you become a co-user on the account, then you have the authority to make decisions on the account. However, due to your mom's credit, this make not be in your best interest.
I would shop around very carefully for a low interest rate credit card. I would still make my payments on time to protect your credit.
When you shop for a card, be very wary of sales personnel who try to make you apply for a card with a high interest rate. The catch they give to you is that you might get a free gift or something of that nature.
Sounds like you were only added as an authorized user. It does go on your credit report, but should not be reflected in your score. Check to make sure. Often times that would be the reason why the companies won't communicate with you about the debt or try to help you resolve any issues. Hopefully, this is the case. If you were responsible for the debt, in most cases they would try to contact you regarding payment. The next time that you call don't hang up with out having your issue resolved. If that means asking for a supervisor, then ask for one. If that means continuing to repeat the phrase ';I don't understand'; then do that....over and over and over until they figure out a way to help you. I hope you get this resolved. Good Luck.
I assume you are an authorized user on your mum's card and not a joint account holder. Call them and have yourself removed as an authorized user. 99% of the time, the authorized user isn't liable to pay so I am guessing your credit is still clean. Remove yourself from her card. An authorized user has the ability to use the account for purchases just as you do, but without any of the financial responsibility. Read this article.
http://www.creditcards.com/credit-card-n鈥?/a>
First of all I would get my name removed even though technically you are only like an authorized user. As an authorized user you are not liable for the account or any other charges, however if you were added as a secondary cardholder or a joint member you are liable and just ruined your credit history. Which one are you currently on her account?
After removing myself, I would advise to get legal advice in order to represent your mom or speak on her account rather than add yourself and risk your credit. They will be able to help you. Power of Attorney is what you need...Andrea is right.
If WAMU is on your credit report, there's a chance she's added you as a joint account holder. I am hoping you are only an authorized user, because then you would not be responsible for this bill. Not much help there, but someone once told me that when I call a company and get their overseas, outsourced foreign operator who can't speak English, I should try calling back into the system at least a couple more times. There's a chance you'll finally be routed to an American call center. Hope your mother feels better and good luck to you.
I agree with everyone.
Another thing to consider is if you call the WAMU number and ask to speak to a superviser...better yet, DEMAND to speak to a supervisor, you will be connected to someone here in the states at their corporate office. That always helps when I need answers.
Also, sometimes the best thing to do is to go to the bank in person and discuss it with the BRANCH MANAGER. Not a teller. This saved me about 100 in overdraft fees when I used an old debit machine at a gas station in the desert.
If you're trying to do this by phone, good luck...I usually don't have any luck when I call the 1-800 number!
You can relax, a little at least. If you haven't signed any contracts, then you are not joint on the account. It is possible that she made you an authorized user, but just as likely that she simply gave the ok for you to discuss her affairs. When you say that WAMU is on your report, what do you mean? Are they the issuer of one of the cards you have or does the ';High Credit'; column show her $13,000.00? If it is the latter, you need to dispute it immediately. Follow the link below for several contact #'s. Click on ';Contact Us'; in the upper right corner, and then choose ';additional numbers and ddresses';. Surely one of them can get you to a fellow English speaking American! Good Luck!
My mom has her own problems with WAMU. She owes them $13,000. Since she is very sick, she put me on her card so I could talk to wamu for her about her debt, etc...
I just got my first credit score and WAMU is on it. she is about to declare bankruptcy and i am scared and sick to my stomach thinking my credit is going to be smashed, i wont be able to get a phone, apartment, car, anything HELP.
Wamu does not communicate with me, no matter how nice or how demanding I am. They are a bunch of indians that only repeat what there computer says, they do not help, they do not listen, its worthless to even call them unless i could call some sort of actual corp. office, not the damn Indian lines.
Who do I call? What will happen? Someone please shed some (good) light on the situation. Thank you very much for any answers that help me. I am in serious worry.I NEED URGET CREDIT ADVICE!! HeLP!?
If she added you as an authorized buyer, you are not responsible. Being an authorized buyer is reported on your credit report though. It is not supposed to affect your credit score, but I have seen cases where it does. Call the companies, ask for a supervisor--explain you want your name removed and did not authorize it. Dispute on your credit report also. Her bankruptcy will not affect your credit at all. The only way any of this can affect you, is if you had joint accounts together. I don't understand why they would have added you as an authorized buyer though--it should only show in their notes that they have authorization to speak to you regarding her debt. Keep on top of this and good luck!!! ***I NEED URGET CREDIT ADVICE!! HeLP!?
I don't know how she put you on her card but you need to get off of it. If you are getting nowhere on the phone, go to a branch in person and explain that you need help.
If your mom is very sick and wants you to handle her affairs, she should give you power of attorney, not add you to accounts.
I hope you are able to extricate yourself from this. If she is going to declare bankruptcy, I assume she has an attorney. You should go with her and speak to the attorney about the situation right away.
Good luck.
Hi,
I used ';Credit Solution'; to settle my debt and avoid bankruptcy.They managed to reduce my debt up to 58%.I came across this company on NBC News Special Edition.Check it out here:
http://memurl.com/furetu
I hope your mom put you on the account strictly as an authorized user and not as a joint user.
If she put you on as an AU, have yourself removed immediately.
If she put you on as a joint, you're screwed. You will be liable for the account.
When you call and get an overseas rep, demand to speak to an american supervisor that is in the U.S. (yes, you have that right)
If she is planning on defaulting and going bankrupt, I don't know what you are trying to get done by talking to them so I can't say much more than I already have.
Except to repeat what I mentioned above - get your name off the account as fast as you can.
I hope your mom feels better soon.
+++
edit
Unless you have a thick file and other credit cards with very high credit limits and low utilization - then yes, that card is hurting your scores by raising your utilization.
One of the better utilization percentages is to use 30% or less of your overall and individual credit limits.
The ideal utilization is 10% or less.
Plus, if she is late or just stops paying , that will kill your scores.
It looks like (for once) everyone is on the same page on what to do! Nice job!
I will only add that you must send the credit bureau a dispute letter, and state that this debt is not yours.
Can I also assume that this is in the hands of a collection agency? Or is WAMU still controlling it? Either way, send them a ';demand to validate'; letter. Tell them you are not a joint user or co-signer, and unless they can supply you with a copy of a signed contract they are strongly advised to delete this from your credit records.
I'm also doing some studying on another tactic.....send a copy of the dispute letter to WAMU's ';Registered Agent';, and include a unfiled small claims lawsuit. The ';registered agent'; is the person designated to receive lawsuits for the corporation. You will get much more attention from this person then some rubber-stamp monkey in their collections department.
I am assuming that you are an authorized user under your mom's credit card. If you become a co-user on the account, then you have the authority to make decisions on the account. However, due to your mom's credit, this make not be in your best interest.
I would shop around very carefully for a low interest rate credit card. I would still make my payments on time to protect your credit.
When you shop for a card, be very wary of sales personnel who try to make you apply for a card with a high interest rate. The catch they give to you is that you might get a free gift or something of that nature.
Sounds like you were only added as an authorized user. It does go on your credit report, but should not be reflected in your score. Check to make sure. Often times that would be the reason why the companies won't communicate with you about the debt or try to help you resolve any issues. Hopefully, this is the case. If you were responsible for the debt, in most cases they would try to contact you regarding payment. The next time that you call don't hang up with out having your issue resolved. If that means asking for a supervisor, then ask for one. If that means continuing to repeat the phrase ';I don't understand'; then do that....over and over and over until they figure out a way to help you. I hope you get this resolved. Good Luck.
I assume you are an authorized user on your mum's card and not a joint account holder. Call them and have yourself removed as an authorized user. 99% of the time, the authorized user isn't liable to pay so I am guessing your credit is still clean. Remove yourself from her card. An authorized user has the ability to use the account for purchases just as you do, but without any of the financial responsibility. Read this article.
http://www.creditcards.com/credit-card-n鈥?/a>
First of all I would get my name removed even though technically you are only like an authorized user. As an authorized user you are not liable for the account or any other charges, however if you were added as a secondary cardholder or a joint member you are liable and just ruined your credit history. Which one are you currently on her account?
After removing myself, I would advise to get legal advice in order to represent your mom or speak on her account rather than add yourself and risk your credit. They will be able to help you. Power of Attorney is what you need...Andrea is right.
If WAMU is on your credit report, there's a chance she's added you as a joint account holder. I am hoping you are only an authorized user, because then you would not be responsible for this bill. Not much help there, but someone once told me that when I call a company and get their overseas, outsourced foreign operator who can't speak English, I should try calling back into the system at least a couple more times. There's a chance you'll finally be routed to an American call center. Hope your mother feels better and good luck to you.
I agree with everyone.
Another thing to consider is if you call the WAMU number and ask to speak to a superviser...better yet, DEMAND to speak to a supervisor, you will be connected to someone here in the states at their corporate office. That always helps when I need answers.
Also, sometimes the best thing to do is to go to the bank in person and discuss it with the BRANCH MANAGER. Not a teller. This saved me about 100 in overdraft fees when I used an old debit machine at a gas station in the desert.
If you're trying to do this by phone, good luck...I usually don't have any luck when I call the 1-800 number!
You can relax, a little at least. If you haven't signed any contracts, then you are not joint on the account. It is possible that she made you an authorized user, but just as likely that she simply gave the ok for you to discuss her affairs. When you say that WAMU is on your report, what do you mean? Are they the issuer of one of the cards you have or does the ';High Credit'; column show her $13,000.00? If it is the latter, you need to dispute it immediately. Follow the link below for several contact #'s. Click on ';Contact Us'; in the upper right corner, and then choose ';additional numbers and ddresses';. Surely one of them can get you to a fellow English speaking American! Good Luck!
I need serious hair advice! Help?
so i have hair that goes to mid boob and im blonde. i really want grow my hair out (my hair grows fast) however i kinda want to cut it. what should i do? also im debating if i want to dye my hair brown i have had it broown before however i have got lucky and dyed my hair the exact color and hacent dyed it for 4 months so im debating if i want to dye it again or just leave it and what color should i dye it i have blue eyes and light skin not pale but not tan. HELP!!!!!!!I need serious hair advice! Help?
Keep blonde blonde is not all that common and is considered very beautiful long blonde beautiful.I need serious hair advice! Help?
Keep your hair the same color because it was with luck last time...you might not find that same color again...if your hair grows fast cut it to your shoulders..its the perfect length...not too short but not too long.
i think a darker color would be nicer for your blue eyes.contrast tou your eyes.Maybe dark brown or if you can, black.detox cleansing
Keep blonde blonde is not all that common and is considered very beautiful long blonde beautiful.I need serious hair advice! Help?
Keep your hair the same color because it was with luck last time...you might not find that same color again...if your hair grows fast cut it to your shoulders..its the perfect length...not too short but not too long.
i think a darker color would be nicer for your blue eyes.contrast tou your eyes.Maybe dark brown or if you can, black.
Please help need advice about shy boys?
Ok i like this boy.i think he likes me im pretty sure he does.But he shy so i want to intorduces myself to him.What should i say. And wht do i do after i introduces myself cuz im shy alittle to.Please help need advice about shy boys?
lol how could he like u even if u haven't talked to him..........amature...Please help need advice about shy boys?
Shy people are shy so they may not talk to you. =O
If you both haven't talked to each other,then lol and ask yourself what exactly you like in each other............?
Attraction is natural but the next thing is just go introduce yourself to him,ask a little about him and finally ask him for friendship.
Then you'll know you like each other or not.And it'll work....
truthfully you dont know if you like him if you have never talked to him. you think he is cute. just talk to him or you will never know
well talking to boys or potential peers is not at all easy. It's completely natural to be shy. Most important is to acknowledge the awkwardness and even laugh at it. It is always hard to meet someone for the first time, but it is not impossible. Expect nothing from him and you cannot be disappointed. approach him and tell him that you have seen him around and just wanted to say hi. Perhaps find some common ground with him and approach him to acknowledge this common ground, for example:'; hi my name is BOB and i have noticed that you wear a lot of shirts that have the Ramones on them! i love them! not many people do.'; Make him feel like you see him as something or someone special and he will see you are trying. Its not about worrying. approach him and talk to him as exactly what your mind says. if you feel like you have made a mistake only focus on what you did do: TRY!!! GGOoodddd luckkk!!!
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lol how could he like u even if u haven't talked to him..........amature...Please help need advice about shy boys?
Shy people are shy so they may not talk to you. =O
If you both haven't talked to each other,then lol and ask yourself what exactly you like in each other............?
Attraction is natural but the next thing is just go introduce yourself to him,ask a little about him and finally ask him for friendship.
Then you'll know you like each other or not.And it'll work....
truthfully you dont know if you like him if you have never talked to him. you think he is cute. just talk to him or you will never know
well talking to boys or potential peers is not at all easy. It's completely natural to be shy. Most important is to acknowledge the awkwardness and even laugh at it. It is always hard to meet someone for the first time, but it is not impossible. Expect nothing from him and you cannot be disappointed. approach him and tell him that you have seen him around and just wanted to say hi. Perhaps find some common ground with him and approach him to acknowledge this common ground, for example:'; hi my name is BOB and i have noticed that you wear a lot of shirts that have the Ramones on them! i love them! not many people do.'; Make him feel like you see him as something or someone special and he will see you are trying. Its not about worrying. approach him and talk to him as exactly what your mind says. if you feel like you have made a mistake only focus on what you did do: TRY!!! GGOoodddd luckkk!!!
talk about music
Need help and advice?
I am planning on marrying a Nigerian man and I am from America. I understand and have read the negative stereotypes (possessive/controlling, multiple wives, cultural changes). I want to know if there is anything i can do to make sure he is being loyal/truthful and remain safe so I don't have trouble in the future.is there any support groups/people i can get in contact with? He lives in the UK and I am planning to see him soon. ThanksNeed help and advice?
Well all men have this tendency if they will to do it, but still it seams a long distance marriage and my advice here is give yrself time, and make sure he does what he says, and that he loves u for what u r.
Spend time together to study each other, study his body language and what he says and i wish u all the luck.
_K_Need help and advice?
How about, one of you moves to the city where the other lives and you spend time in the same room getting to know each other ... you know, like REAL dating.
How ELSE can you know anything about anyone, other than spending time with them?
The odds are stacked against you in so many ways that I'm not going to list them. If you are seriously wondering about your safety in the future, then do not marry this man.
You don't need support groups, hon. You need FACE TIME with this man, ok?
How many times have you seen him ? Out of curiousity ...
I feel before you make drastic moves to a country you know little to nothing about check out the rights a Nigerian wife has some countries they have no rights to divorce or leave even if they are american they become subject to their laws and get No voice.you really need to think girl you may find little to no support in a country where a wife is little more than a possession and with the way animals are treated here You can expect the same as a possession ,Sally field did a movie NOT WITHOUT MY DAUGHTER and it is a true story that a woman went through to get out.You may say oh he loves me he would never be mean to me YOU DO NOT KNOW are you so foolish as to put yourself in another country and hope he dose not turn.
if he has lived in the uk for a while you could go their magistrate and look up marriage licenses on him (just like here) or ask his family. get a feel for whom you should ask so as not to tip him off.
Honorabel Elija Muhammad through Honorable Minister Louis Farrakhan teach us
There cannot be a new world except that there is a new and better understanding of the female, which will give us (men) a clearer understanding of self and above all, a clearer understanding of (God). In the Bible, (God) declares, “Behold I make all things new.” It is only through her that we live again, and again, and again. It is only through her that we continue to move toward the true perfection that (God) desires for His creation. She is the cornerstone of the family and therefore is critical in the whole process of nation and world building
If we wanted better relations between Black and White that includes OTHERS, . Black people, first have to come into a knowledge of self ORIGIN, GOD, HISTORY OF OTHERS. This act on our part will earn the respect of self as well as others. It will ultimately help us to have better relations with those who see us as an unwanted burden in this society.
Some of us have a false love for the White woman, and some of us have a false love for the White man. Some want the former slave master’s woman because the former slave master has always had free access to our women, and some want the White man because he wields great power in the society.
We must ask the question of those who have gone the way of having interracial relations, is the love a true love, or is it merely an acting out of a corrupted fantasy which is held by both Black and White? When we, as a people, are healed of our mental, moral and spiritual sickness, then maybe we can look across racial lines and see the true value and worth of one another. However, healing of the deadly diseases of White supremacy and Black inferiority has to take place first!
LOVE is Highest Order of GOD. What is LIFE? It is the activity that is in accord with the law under which we are created. LOVE is the creative force out of which life comes. To truly love is to live and to have true life is to exist in true love. Where true love exists, we can weather the storms of life and its ups and downs. Where true love exists, we will be faithful through sickness, poverty, and through whatever difficulty life brings to us. Therefore, to accomplish the goal of the union of two people is to gain the incomparable quality of true love.
So where there is love, love transcends our racial denomination or ethnicity. Love is the great power of transformation. I don't think that we can say when two people are so in love that they shouldn't marry one another.
Well all men have this tendency if they will to do it, but still it seams a long distance marriage and my advice here is give yrself time, and make sure he does what he says, and that he loves u for what u r.
Spend time together to study each other, study his body language and what he says and i wish u all the luck.
_K_Need help and advice?
How about, one of you moves to the city where the other lives and you spend time in the same room getting to know each other ... you know, like REAL dating.
How ELSE can you know anything about anyone, other than spending time with them?
The odds are stacked against you in so many ways that I'm not going to list them. If you are seriously wondering about your safety in the future, then do not marry this man.
You don't need support groups, hon. You need FACE TIME with this man, ok?
How many times have you seen him ? Out of curiousity ...
I feel before you make drastic moves to a country you know little to nothing about check out the rights a Nigerian wife has some countries they have no rights to divorce or leave even if they are american they become subject to their laws and get No voice.you really need to think girl you may find little to no support in a country where a wife is little more than a possession and with the way animals are treated here You can expect the same as a possession ,Sally field did a movie NOT WITHOUT MY DAUGHTER and it is a true story that a woman went through to get out.You may say oh he loves me he would never be mean to me YOU DO NOT KNOW are you so foolish as to put yourself in another country and hope he dose not turn.
if he has lived in the uk for a while you could go their magistrate and look up marriage licenses on him (just like here) or ask his family. get a feel for whom you should ask so as not to tip him off.
Honorabel Elija Muhammad through Honorable Minister Louis Farrakhan teach us
There cannot be a new world except that there is a new and better understanding of the female, which will give us (men) a clearer understanding of self and above all, a clearer understanding of (God). In the Bible, (God) declares, “Behold I make all things new.” It is only through her that we live again, and again, and again. It is only through her that we continue to move toward the true perfection that (God) desires for His creation. She is the cornerstone of the family and therefore is critical in the whole process of nation and world building
If we wanted better relations between Black and White that includes OTHERS, . Black people, first have to come into a knowledge of self ORIGIN, GOD, HISTORY OF OTHERS. This act on our part will earn the respect of self as well as others. It will ultimately help us to have better relations with those who see us as an unwanted burden in this society.
Some of us have a false love for the White woman, and some of us have a false love for the White man. Some want the former slave master’s woman because the former slave master has always had free access to our women, and some want the White man because he wields great power in the society.
We must ask the question of those who have gone the way of having interracial relations, is the love a true love, or is it merely an acting out of a corrupted fantasy which is held by both Black and White? When we, as a people, are healed of our mental, moral and spiritual sickness, then maybe we can look across racial lines and see the true value and worth of one another. However, healing of the deadly diseases of White supremacy and Black inferiority has to take place first!
LOVE is Highest Order of GOD. What is LIFE? It is the activity that is in accord with the law under which we are created. LOVE is the creative force out of which life comes. To truly love is to live and to have true life is to exist in true love. Where true love exists, we can weather the storms of life and its ups and downs. Where true love exists, we will be faithful through sickness, poverty, and through whatever difficulty life brings to us. Therefore, to accomplish the goal of the union of two people is to gain the incomparable quality of true love.
So where there is love, love transcends our racial denomination or ethnicity. Love is the great power of transformation. I don't think that we can say when two people are so in love that they shouldn't marry one another.
Looking for advice on interviewing for a government position, please help!?
am interviewing tomorrow for a City Planner position and I am terribly nervous. I currently work within government as a planner for a different department, but this is a much better opportunity for me and I desperatly want this. I know the general rules of dressing and presenting professionally and appropriately, maintaining eye contact, and remaining confident. I am looking for advice on answering questions and being interviewed by a panel of government directors and supervisors. Any advice you can give is greatly appreciated!Looking for advice on interviewing for a government position, please help!?
Just a few tips:
-- Have you researched the position? Know as many details as possible, and tailor your answers to questions based on the position.
-- Go prepared with questions for the interviewers, in case they ask if you have any questions. You don't want to be caught out with nothing to say.
-- If you're interviewing w/ multiple people, be sure to look at everyone while you're answering. Not all at once, but distribute your eye contact accordingly.
-- Be prepared to discuss your current job in detail -- your accomplishments, any roadblocks, what you would do differently, etc. You'll sound great if you're super-knowledgeable.
-- Keep your answers to a reasonable length. Not too short, not too long.
Good luck!Looking for advice on interviewing for a government position, please help!?
This should help. I just stumbled upon it like a week ago. I hope this gets me best answer.
http://www.flickr.com/photos/25014312@N05/
Just a few tips:
-- Have you researched the position? Know as many details as possible, and tailor your answers to questions based on the position.
-- Go prepared with questions for the interviewers, in case they ask if you have any questions. You don't want to be caught out with nothing to say.
-- If you're interviewing w/ multiple people, be sure to look at everyone while you're answering. Not all at once, but distribute your eye contact accordingly.
-- Be prepared to discuss your current job in detail -- your accomplishments, any roadblocks, what you would do differently, etc. You'll sound great if you're super-knowledgeable.
-- Keep your answers to a reasonable length. Not too short, not too long.
Good luck!Looking for advice on interviewing for a government position, please help!?
This should help. I just stumbled upon it like a week ago. I hope this gets me best answer.
http://www.flickr.com/photos/25014312@N05/
I need friend advice help!?
okay so i have a best friend and then some friends from school but the only person i really hang out with is my best friend
i try to keep in touch with my friends from school but they live far away and some went on vaca for the whole summer
i recently hung out with a few kids from school last week and was wondering is it bad that the only person i really hang out with is my best friend?
because now she is starting to hang out with different people and leaving me out.. so basically i have nothing to do
how can i make new friends and where? im in high school by the wayI need friend advice help!?
Hey I been there and Done that! You will make new freinds, but remeber your best freind will alway be around and talk to you. but you in high school need exprinces other people and things like that. that give you guys something to talk about. so maybe find someone who like same sports as you or same tv shows. and yet any school topic or outside of school. ask your friend if you can be cluded in or maybe her freinds are different and maybe she afraide that you get your feelings hurt. becouse everybody not same. but it will be ok. just be your self and do what you want to do.
i try to keep in touch with my friends from school but they live far away and some went on vaca for the whole summer
i recently hung out with a few kids from school last week and was wondering is it bad that the only person i really hang out with is my best friend?
because now she is starting to hang out with different people and leaving me out.. so basically i have nothing to do
how can i make new friends and where? im in high school by the wayI need friend advice help!?
Hey I been there and Done that! You will make new freinds, but remeber your best freind will alway be around and talk to you. but you in high school need exprinces other people and things like that. that give you guys something to talk about. so maybe find someone who like same sports as you or same tv shows. and yet any school topic or outside of school. ask your friend if you can be cluded in or maybe her freinds are different and maybe she afraide that you get your feelings hurt. becouse everybody not same. but it will be ok. just be your self and do what you want to do.
I need some advice. Help?
my mom is driving me insane ok. First off i got divorced in November of 08 well we were going to getr back together but decided not to and we are still friends. Well i am with this one guy my mom call and says that my ex husband was here and she knows it. She said she would disown me if i ever went back to him. I love the guy I am with now i have a promise ring from him and would never leave him. I think she is going by the house. Oh my gosh i told her he wasn't. I don't think she believes me. It is getting to the point i don't know what to do. I mean i can't even go over to just hang out. He is great as a friend and she says its ok were friends but we can't hang out. I am about ready to stop talking to her. What do i doI need some advice. Help?
Your an adult. You do what you want and your mother can not do anything about it but live with your choices. It is your choice to be friends with someone and your choice who you make a life with.
Just let her know you would like it if she could kinda butt out but you are not with the ex you just have been talking to another person but when and if it gets to the point you want them to meet then you will but until then please butt out.
Your an adult. You do what you want and your mother can not do anything about it but live with your choices. It is your choice to be friends with someone and your choice who you make a life with.
Just let her know you would like it if she could kinda butt out but you are not with the ex you just have been talking to another person but when and if it gets to the point you want them to meet then you will but until then please butt out.
Serious Runner. Need advice/help.?
I started running official track last week. love it. am fast. 2nd on the team and im just a freshman. i plan to go down state and one of my events is the 400 so far. my coach talked to me about how i am extremely talented and have a natural gift for this sport especially since i never ran before. she couldnt believe it. im not bragging but you need to know this. because now i am just extremely motivated for state and will do anything and everything for that spot on the state team. what do i do besides work extra hard at practice. i am a swimmer, it benefits me so maybe something else i can do? nutrition? excercises? how to prepare before a meet? thanks!Serious Runner. Need advice/help.?
Can you really run the 400m in 52 seconds like you said in your other post? I don't believe it. That's amazing if true. Just keep doing what you're doing. But don't over do it. If you feel an injury coming, take time off. What state do you live in?Serious Runner. Need advice/help.?
Nutrition and hydration are important. As for exercise, double up on your kickboard workoutdetox cleansing
Can you really run the 400m in 52 seconds like you said in your other post? I don't believe it. That's amazing if true. Just keep doing what you're doing. But don't over do it. If you feel an injury coming, take time off. What state do you live in?Serious Runner. Need advice/help.?
Nutrition and hydration are important. As for exercise, double up on your kickboard workout
Marine Corps Birthday Ball?! Any advice or help from people who have been. Thanks.?
This will be my first time attending a marine corps ball (also, my marine's too) Im very nervous but excited at the same time. I had a really hard time finding a dress but i found a decent one. Its a strapless red dress thats floor length. It looks good. I just wanna make sure its okay. Im also not a heel girl so would it be okay to wear an inch heel? Any other helpful tips would be awesome. thank you so muchMarine Corps Birthday Ball?! Any advice or help from people who have been. Thanks.?
Do Not Attend...
It is just one BIG DRUNKEN Disgrace
to the Honor of the Corps...
A minimum of between 5-10 Young Marines
will Die in Auto/Motor Cycle Accidents returning from it...
Another 15-20 Will be crippled for life
that does not include the Number of
Dependents that will also perish that night...
I attended one as a PFC and never
attended another one since...
Have escorted a number of Marines
home for Burial...Marine Corps Birthday Ball?! Any advice or help from people who have been. Thanks.?
Just make sure you can sit down in it for dinner and you are ok on the dance floor. You are going to see the gambit of dresses. Have loads of fun. There will more men than woman and many retired marines love to celebrate{drink} at this functions.
as long as you are comfortable wearing it. I wouldn't just because I know I would be tugging at it all night making sure nothing was going to fall out.lol. But as long as you are comfortable wearing it, it should be fine. I am contemplating wearing nice flats or not..kind of lame but I hate standing in heels..how can I have fun when my feet hurt? lol. anyway, I think one inch heals will be fine. Good luck and have fun! I'm super excited for mine this year. email me if you wanna talk or anything :)
~Marine Wife
Do Not Attend...
It is just one BIG DRUNKEN Disgrace
to the Honor of the Corps...
A minimum of between 5-10 Young Marines
will Die in Auto/Motor Cycle Accidents returning from it...
Another 15-20 Will be crippled for life
that does not include the Number of
Dependents that will also perish that night...
I attended one as a PFC and never
attended another one since...
Have escorted a number of Marines
home for Burial...Marine Corps Birthday Ball?! Any advice or help from people who have been. Thanks.?
Just make sure you can sit down in it for dinner and you are ok on the dance floor. You are going to see the gambit of dresses. Have loads of fun. There will more men than woman and many retired marines love to celebrate{drink} at this functions.
as long as you are comfortable wearing it. I wouldn't just because I know I would be tugging at it all night making sure nothing was going to fall out.lol. But as long as you are comfortable wearing it, it should be fine. I am contemplating wearing nice flats or not..kind of lame but I hate standing in heels..how can I have fun when my feet hurt? lol. anyway, I think one inch heals will be fine. Good luck and have fun! I'm super excited for mine this year. email me if you wanna talk or anything :)
~Marine Wife
Im 13 and need some advice. PLZ HELP!!!!?
when im at school i always hang out with my gf. Butt her friends are allways around. And like its hard to kiss her and stuff around her friends. Doess anyone got any suggestions on how to get over bing shy around her friends?!?! Im 13 and need some advice. PLZ HELP!!!!?
ok it will be kinda weird if kiss her in front of all her friends
maybe pull her away somewhere
or just hug her hold her hand her waist first then you move to the whole kissing thing but do it one step at a time
Im 13 and need some advice. PLZ HELP!!!!?
girls don't mind when you do stuff like that in front of them. if my friends bf did that i'd just say ';awwwwwwww!';! seriously its really cute dont worry about it!
just tell her to tell her friends to give yall some space...my friends have the same problem..and if that doesn't work..try to become closer friends with her friends(if you aren't already) so you will feel more comfortable around them
it will be hard, but better yet, why dont you talk to her and tell her that you feel more comfortable when she is along? that way, she can either tell her friends to give her space or at least be aware of your problem.
who cares about her firends, if its her you want then go and get her, who cares what her friends think or that there even there, go get your girl
Hm. When she's going around a corner pull her by her arm and just kiss her like a surprise. Hehe. I'm a romantic.
well maybe invite her to your house or something. then you might be able to kiss. and you can talk to her about it. but dont go all vaccuum cleaner on her mouth
Being shy around her friends is not a bad thing. It's appropriate, especially in school. Try just giving her a peck on the cheek to show affection rather than trying to go all out. By the way, ';but'; is spelt with one t, two t's refers to the body part. ( :
What you should do is just kiss her and then make them feel awkward or you can clear your throat and they would probably get the message
you should just become better friends with her friends, so there wont be as much pressure... and then try to pull her away for a little bit and stuff then make your move.
but dont become too close with her friends or she will get the wrong idea
well i guess u could try whispering in her ear or something and then kiss her on the cheek. her friends will probably think its really cute and love seeing it so dont worry about it
you dont have 2 kiss in public.
wait till you go out on a date
by yourselves.
you shouldnt be shy around her friends just act like thier not there they shouldnt stop you from kissing her.but dont you get in trouble for kissing and stuff during school.im in middle school and i got in trouble soooo much because of that. =/
ok it will be kinda weird if kiss her in front of all her friends
maybe pull her away somewhere
or just hug her hold her hand her waist first then you move to the whole kissing thing but do it one step at a time
Im 13 and need some advice. PLZ HELP!!!!?
girls don't mind when you do stuff like that in front of them. if my friends bf did that i'd just say ';awwwwwwww!';! seriously its really cute dont worry about it!
just tell her to tell her friends to give yall some space...my friends have the same problem..and if that doesn't work..try to become closer friends with her friends(if you aren't already) so you will feel more comfortable around them
it will be hard, but better yet, why dont you talk to her and tell her that you feel more comfortable when she is along? that way, she can either tell her friends to give her space or at least be aware of your problem.
who cares about her firends, if its her you want then go and get her, who cares what her friends think or that there even there, go get your girl
Hm. When she's going around a corner pull her by her arm and just kiss her like a surprise. Hehe. I'm a romantic.
well maybe invite her to your house or something. then you might be able to kiss. and you can talk to her about it. but dont go all vaccuum cleaner on her mouth
Being shy around her friends is not a bad thing. It's appropriate, especially in school. Try just giving her a peck on the cheek to show affection rather than trying to go all out. By the way, ';but'; is spelt with one t, two t's refers to the body part. ( :
What you should do is just kiss her and then make them feel awkward or you can clear your throat and they would probably get the message
you should just become better friends with her friends, so there wont be as much pressure... and then try to pull her away for a little bit and stuff then make your move.
but dont become too close with her friends or she will get the wrong idea
well i guess u could try whispering in her ear or something and then kiss her on the cheek. her friends will probably think its really cute and love seeing it so dont worry about it
you dont have 2 kiss in public.
wait till you go out on a date
by yourselves.
you shouldnt be shy around her friends just act like thier not there they shouldnt stop you from kissing her.but dont you get in trouble for kissing and stuff during school.im in middle school and i got in trouble soooo much because of that. =/
Any advice for making sure your bird is moist at Christmas , and do the birds giblets help make a nice gravy?
Don't lay the bird on its back, flip her over, so all the juices run into the breast whilst giving it a good roasting.
I'm afraid that you will have to supply your own gravy (not custard).
...*NB....they get upset if you try to stuff their feet up the backside again*...Any advice for making sure your bird is moist at Christmas , and do the birds giblets help make a nice gravy?
Just make sure once you have the legs spread its kept well lubricated especially during the stuffing process.Any advice for making sure your bird is moist at Christmas , and do the birds giblets help make a nice gravy?
the giblets?.....aren't they the bits you usually forget about.....word of warning!!...thats why you havent got the gravy!!! :)
Still dreaming of that Wet Christmas if only there was something I could say that might help.
Lots of attention and yes, if you know your way around them, they do :)
keep feeling it with your fingers...
i prefer a spitroast myself
Right. Is this about sex?
sorry, my bad. lol
I'm afraid that you will have to supply your own gravy (not custard).
...*NB....they get upset if you try to stuff their feet up the backside again*...Any advice for making sure your bird is moist at Christmas , and do the birds giblets help make a nice gravy?
Just make sure once you have the legs spread its kept well lubricated especially during the stuffing process.Any advice for making sure your bird is moist at Christmas , and do the birds giblets help make a nice gravy?
the giblets?.....aren't they the bits you usually forget about.....word of warning!!...thats why you havent got the gravy!!! :)
Still dreaming of that Wet Christmas if only there was something I could say that might help.
Lots of attention and yes, if you know your way around them, they do :)
keep feeling it with your fingers...
i prefer a spitroast myself
Right. Is this about sex?
sorry, my bad. lol
I need advice on what to do concerning my high school years. Any help?
I'm sort of desperate. When it comes to school, I'm the first in my class. It sounds great but it's not. I go to a very small school and the education just doesn't cut it for me. I earned a 98.8% average my freshman year without studying or even applying myself. Over the summer I tried to convince my mother to let me home school myself. I am a very self disciplined person and could acheive a lot working at my own pace. Unfortunately, my mother did not agree to this. I want to get the most out of my high school education. We talked to the Guidance Counselors and they said that if I need more challenge, I need to find it myself. Private schooling is too expensive. What can I do this coming school year to challenge myself? How can I learn everything I would like to learn without waiting for the rest of the class to catch up? I'm at the end of my resources, so I'm really hoping someone out there will read this-maybe a Guidance Couselor or someone who was in the same situation. Thanks!I need advice on what to do concerning my high school years. Any help?
While your desire to be challenged is admirable and I empathize with the boredom factor, I'd like to suggest a different path. Instead of trying to accelerate your education, try to broaden it. Join some clubs and activities that you have never experienced. If homework is not a burden, you should be able to do a lot of things. You may find something new that you are really passionate about. This would make your high school years go much more quickly and interestingly.
In any given class where boredom is a problem, always have a good book handy. Again, it doesn't have to be of the textbook variety. Explore different kinds of literature and poetry. Find things that speak to you. You'll learn a lot about who you are and who you want to become, not just a bunch of facts to regurgitate on the SATs.I need advice on what to do concerning my high school years. Any help?
See if your state has a Virtual Governor's school, which would teach AP classes. You could take AP classes online. Virginia does, so you could google Virginia Online Governor's School/AP classes, find the website, and see what I'm talking about. Your school might let you take such classes in the library.
Or maybe there are other online programs where you could take classes. Do a google search.
When the time is right, see if you can take classes at a community college, if you cannot take APs in your area.
What is your aim in life? What you want to become?Try to concentrate on that ,gather information,collect all details.Scoring very good marks alone will not help you in your career later.Students do well in schools and colleges,but when it comes to profession they are at their wit's end.They do not have a calculated plan to decide what their profession should be.They have the tendency of going with the crowd.Confidence building measures,practical exposures,rise to the occasion,planning and execution are not taught in curriculum.They are only bookworms.Once they get in to profession, they become contented.So decide what you want to achieve and start doing the spade work.
'One who knows not that he knows not' is a fool-
'One who knows not that he knows' -guide him
'One who knows that he knows not'-teach him
'One who knows that he knows'-learn from him.
In our area, the community colleges offer programs that younger students can participate in. Maybe you could check that out. Lots of factors go into college acceptance. Are you making good use of your time in volunteering, community service, leadership, tutoring, etc.? Good luck.
Oh boo freaking hoo! Try being a retard like me and have to struggle your whole life through school being bullied and treated like you're stupid you whole life. Listen honey, just be glad you are smart and will most likely make it in life. Folks like me are the ones working at burger King or some blue-collar jobs, being treated like **** by folks like you. Now-a-days, if you dont have a degree, you are nobody. And some people just wont ever have one because of the crap they have to go through... You want a challenge? Change places with me! I would do anything to have your brains. Be content honey. You could be worrying about how you will ever pay your bills or how you are gonna make it at all. Just be grateful for the brains you were blessed with. When real life starts kicking you in the ***...thats your challenge. You dont know crap yet. You only think you do.
Can you get the school to allow you to take college classes? Sometimes you can take them after school.
Read lots - it helps. Read stuff you don't like that other consider important or classic and try to figure out what makes it important to them.
And hang in there - it's only a few more years until you can take total control of your own destiny!!!
When I was in high school, the kids who were really smart only took 1 or 2 classes at the school, the rest of the time they were taking college classes at the local community college. Might that be something you can try??
take a class at a community college or nearby college or university or challege yourself to mentor gifted children at a local elementary school or do enrichment with gifted or all children...just pick a subject you really like or think they would like to learn...you are limited in subject matter only by your creativity and imagination...think outside the box and share your talent with others...would look fantastic on college admission papers and scholarship applications.
Ask your counselor to find gifted or advanced or AP classes for you.
Ask your principal for the same stuff.
Take community college classes to prepare for college.
Go online and take college credit classes.
Read all the books that you can read. Teach yourself something that isn't offered at your school.
Take summer classes at your school or community college.
Check out if your high school offers Advanced Placement or Honors classes. They're geared more toward advanced students who learn faster, and are a great option. You may also be able to be involved in 'dual enrollment,' which would mean you can take a college course for both HS and college credit.
Oh, and if you stay 1st in your class, I suggest writing your valedictory speech the summer before your senior year, to get it over with.
stay there, do you're best...graduate velecdictorian, go to Harvard...then you'll be challenged.
While your desire to be challenged is admirable and I empathize with the boredom factor, I'd like to suggest a different path. Instead of trying to accelerate your education, try to broaden it. Join some clubs and activities that you have never experienced. If homework is not a burden, you should be able to do a lot of things. You may find something new that you are really passionate about. This would make your high school years go much more quickly and interestingly.
In any given class where boredom is a problem, always have a good book handy. Again, it doesn't have to be of the textbook variety. Explore different kinds of literature and poetry. Find things that speak to you. You'll learn a lot about who you are and who you want to become, not just a bunch of facts to regurgitate on the SATs.I need advice on what to do concerning my high school years. Any help?
See if your state has a Virtual Governor's school, which would teach AP classes. You could take AP classes online. Virginia does, so you could google Virginia Online Governor's School/AP classes, find the website, and see what I'm talking about. Your school might let you take such classes in the library.
Or maybe there are other online programs where you could take classes. Do a google search.
When the time is right, see if you can take classes at a community college, if you cannot take APs in your area.
What is your aim in life? What you want to become?Try to concentrate on that ,gather information,collect all details.Scoring very good marks alone will not help you in your career later.Students do well in schools and colleges,but when it comes to profession they are at their wit's end.They do not have a calculated plan to decide what their profession should be.They have the tendency of going with the crowd.Confidence building measures,practical exposures,rise to the occasion,planning and execution are not taught in curriculum.They are only bookworms.Once they get in to profession, they become contented.So decide what you want to achieve and start doing the spade work.
'One who knows not that he knows not' is a fool-
'One who knows not that he knows' -guide him
'One who knows that he knows not'-teach him
'One who knows that he knows'-learn from him.
In our area, the community colleges offer programs that younger students can participate in. Maybe you could check that out. Lots of factors go into college acceptance. Are you making good use of your time in volunteering, community service, leadership, tutoring, etc.? Good luck.
Oh boo freaking hoo! Try being a retard like me and have to struggle your whole life through school being bullied and treated like you're stupid you whole life. Listen honey, just be glad you are smart and will most likely make it in life. Folks like me are the ones working at burger King or some blue-collar jobs, being treated like **** by folks like you. Now-a-days, if you dont have a degree, you are nobody. And some people just wont ever have one because of the crap they have to go through... You want a challenge? Change places with me! I would do anything to have your brains. Be content honey. You could be worrying about how you will ever pay your bills or how you are gonna make it at all. Just be grateful for the brains you were blessed with. When real life starts kicking you in the ***...thats your challenge. You dont know crap yet. You only think you do.
Can you get the school to allow you to take college classes? Sometimes you can take them after school.
Read lots - it helps. Read stuff you don't like that other consider important or classic and try to figure out what makes it important to them.
And hang in there - it's only a few more years until you can take total control of your own destiny!!!
When I was in high school, the kids who were really smart only took 1 or 2 classes at the school, the rest of the time they were taking college classes at the local community college. Might that be something you can try??
take a class at a community college or nearby college or university or challege yourself to mentor gifted children at a local elementary school or do enrichment with gifted or all children...just pick a subject you really like or think they would like to learn...you are limited in subject matter only by your creativity and imagination...think outside the box and share your talent with others...would look fantastic on college admission papers and scholarship applications.
Ask your counselor to find gifted or advanced or AP classes for you.
Ask your principal for the same stuff.
Take community college classes to prepare for college.
Go online and take college credit classes.
Read all the books that you can read. Teach yourself something that isn't offered at your school.
Take summer classes at your school or community college.
Check out if your high school offers Advanced Placement or Honors classes. They're geared more toward advanced students who learn faster, and are a great option. You may also be able to be involved in 'dual enrollment,' which would mean you can take a college course for both HS and college credit.
Oh, and if you stay 1st in your class, I suggest writing your valedictory speech the summer before your senior year, to get it over with.
stay there, do you're best...graduate velecdictorian, go to Harvard...then you'll be challenged.
Can i have some help and advice on getting this girl?
Right, she is my best friend an has been for 5 years. we are in our last year at high school, leaving in june. I really really like her an have done for a while. I know she thinks im hot an has told me that but i dont think she ';likes'; me. How can i win her over becuase i really do like her?
Ideas, strategies?
Also could you help me deisgn an outfit for an upcoming party
im tall blonde , surfer hair and english
CheersCan i have some help and advice on getting this girl?
all you can do is tell this girl how you truly feel no matter how embarrassing it could be and you never know she could feel the same way but is too scared to say she is incase you knock her back but she could be droping hints in like saying something like ';you look hot in that'; or '; looking good'; to try to get you to like her and to see she likes you without her having to say it. So goodluck with that :D ...and for the outfit it depends what kind of party if its like a beach party then white three quater length comats and a summer like shirt or if its more like a birthday night out on the town then black trousers or jeans are the way to go with a nice clean cut shirt :D:D XxXCan i have some help and advice on getting this girl?
Put it in her hands and cry.
tell her shes beautiful:)
the key to a girls heart
Ideas, strategies?
Also could you help me deisgn an outfit for an upcoming party
im tall blonde , surfer hair and english
CheersCan i have some help and advice on getting this girl?
all you can do is tell this girl how you truly feel no matter how embarrassing it could be and you never know she could feel the same way but is too scared to say she is incase you knock her back but she could be droping hints in like saying something like ';you look hot in that'; or '; looking good'; to try to get you to like her and to see she likes you without her having to say it. So goodluck with that :D ...and for the outfit it depends what kind of party if its like a beach party then white three quater length comats and a summer like shirt or if its more like a birthday night out on the town then black trousers or jeans are the way to go with a nice clean cut shirt :D:D XxXCan i have some help and advice on getting this girl?
Put it in her hands and cry.
tell her shes beautiful:)
the key to a girls heart
Thursday, July 29, 2010
Curly hair - help, advice?
My hair is a little below my shoulders, it's layered with the shortest hair below my ear. Hairstylists usually screw up with curls, so I'm letting it grow and I want to find a hairstyle right for me.Can anyone help. I want a hairstyle that will make my curls look good and be easy to manage. (cuz now they are out of control!) Can you help me find a good style, or do you have any tips on styling and taking care of curly hair.Curly hair - help, advice?
Check out http://www.naturallycurly.com for lots of great info about curly hair!
Check out http://www.naturallycurly.com/curlpix to get some style ideas, then visit http://www.naturallycurly.com/curlsalons to find a curl stylist expert in your area. It's important to see someone who really knows how to work with curly hair. Most stylists don't get any training with curly hair in beauty school.
Here are some frizz tips for you!
* A good haircut is key (find an expert here: http://www.naturallycurly.com/curlsalons鈥?/a>
* Sleep on a satin pillowcase
* Don't shampoo every day
* Comb conditioner through hair in the shower
* Avoid terrycloth towels; use microfiber instead
* Air dry or use a diffuser
* Use styling products suited for your hair type (http://www.naturallycurly.com/hair-types鈥?/a>
* NEVER use a brush
* Don't touch your hair
* A pomade is great for mid-day touchups
* Apply styling products to dripping wet hairdetox cleansing
Check out http://www.naturallycurly.com for lots of great info about curly hair!
Check out http://www.naturallycurly.com/curlpix to get some style ideas, then visit http://www.naturallycurly.com/curlsalons to find a curl stylist expert in your area. It's important to see someone who really knows how to work with curly hair. Most stylists don't get any training with curly hair in beauty school.
Here are some frizz tips for you!
* A good haircut is key (find an expert here: http://www.naturallycurly.com/curlsalons鈥?/a>
* Sleep on a satin pillowcase
* Don't shampoo every day
* Comb conditioner through hair in the shower
* Avoid terrycloth towels; use microfiber instead
* Air dry or use a diffuser
* Use styling products suited for your hair type (http://www.naturallycurly.com/hair-types鈥?/a>
* NEVER use a brush
* Don't touch your hair
* A pomade is great for mid-day touchups
* Apply styling products to dripping wet hair
Need some help/advice...14 weeks pregnant..please read!!?
SO i am just about 14 weeks pregnant with my first and i just do not feel pregnant!! besides being fat and headaches everyday i don't have ms or sore boobs anymore! it's starting to freak me out now. i haven't seen the baby for 6 weeks and have yet to hear it. i go in monday but i'm just so worried! has anyone else felt like this?! also..when did you first feel your baby??Need some help/advice...14 weeks pregnant..please read!!?
Oh hunny!!! I think these are perfectly normal responses to pregnancy, especially for a first timer. When I was pregnant, the only time I felt comfortable and that my baby was safe, was when I was either getting an ultrasound or when my doctor was listening to the heartbeat. I'd spend the whole time between visits worrying about the things that could go wrong. Eventually, I had to stop reading the stupid books, because they just gave me even more stuff to worry about. As for feeling the baby move, at the very least they say 20 weeks, especially for a first time mom. The baby could be moving earlier but the feelings are sometimes difficult to distinguish from gas bubbles, so just wait for it. It'll happen.Need some help/advice...14 weeks pregnant..please read!!?
Its very normal to lose some of the sickness after 12 weeks. You're now in your 2nd trimester and things are supposed to be a bit better. You're supposed to have more energy now and less sickness. I'm a big girl so I didn't HEAR the heartbeat til I was 14-16 weeks along, and I didnt feel them move till closer to 20 weeks.
As long as you haven't been bleeding and havent had any cramping, I think you can safely assume everything is going good. Enjoy your pgcy!
yes I felt like that with this pregnancy, and I am 36 weeks pregnant and this is my 7th one. Don't be alarmed soon you will have your ultrasound and the MD will start using the doppler to hear the baby's heart beat. Everything will be fine. Congratulations on your pregnancy and soon you blessing from the Lord will be here.
Woah, honey you won't feel until 20 weeks at the EARLIEST! Hear the baby? You can't hear the baby...except their heartbeat with the little sonogram or ultrasound. You are JUST barely preggo - trust me you'll look back when you are 9 months (if you can turn around easily;) and think ';Man, i had it easy there for awhile!';
You won't feel the baby for several weeks - maybe 6 or 7 more. I'm sure everything is fine. Your symptoms are probably just light right now. They'll come back - probably worse ; (
Try to relax over the weekend. Stress is bad for baby. You'll see the doctor on Monday and everything will be fine.
Well I duno if this will help but I 17 when I had my first and I was scard and I didn't go to the doctor till I was 6 months . After that then you can feel their every move but dont worry your little baby is in there it's just resting and growing dont worry about it .
I felt this with each one of my boys all the way until they started moving, It just means your body is handling your pregnancy well and adjusted easily. Thats good! This fourth one I have had horrible sickness am 19 weeks and gained nothing! Be grateful your having such a great experience! Good luck congrats and maybe its a boy!!!
I felt like that with my first pregnancy too. There were a lot of times for a bit out of my day I would not even remember I was pregnant. Then it would hit me again. I didn't really have any symptoms either. Trust me, give it a few more weeks! :)
I wasn't sick or nothing with my first child. I never even felt her move in side of me so yeah that is kinda freaky. Talk to your Doctor and let them know what is going on. it is about 20 weeks tha you start to feel your baby moveing
Oh hunny!!! I think these are perfectly normal responses to pregnancy, especially for a first timer. When I was pregnant, the only time I felt comfortable and that my baby was safe, was when I was either getting an ultrasound or when my doctor was listening to the heartbeat. I'd spend the whole time between visits worrying about the things that could go wrong. Eventually, I had to stop reading the stupid books, because they just gave me even more stuff to worry about. As for feeling the baby move, at the very least they say 20 weeks, especially for a first time mom. The baby could be moving earlier but the feelings are sometimes difficult to distinguish from gas bubbles, so just wait for it. It'll happen.Need some help/advice...14 weeks pregnant..please read!!?
Its very normal to lose some of the sickness after 12 weeks. You're now in your 2nd trimester and things are supposed to be a bit better. You're supposed to have more energy now and less sickness. I'm a big girl so I didn't HEAR the heartbeat til I was 14-16 weeks along, and I didnt feel them move till closer to 20 weeks.
As long as you haven't been bleeding and havent had any cramping, I think you can safely assume everything is going good. Enjoy your pgcy!
yes I felt like that with this pregnancy, and I am 36 weeks pregnant and this is my 7th one. Don't be alarmed soon you will have your ultrasound and the MD will start using the doppler to hear the baby's heart beat. Everything will be fine. Congratulations on your pregnancy and soon you blessing from the Lord will be here.
Woah, honey you won't feel until 20 weeks at the EARLIEST! Hear the baby? You can't hear the baby...except their heartbeat with the little sonogram or ultrasound. You are JUST barely preggo - trust me you'll look back when you are 9 months (if you can turn around easily;) and think ';Man, i had it easy there for awhile!';
You won't feel the baby for several weeks - maybe 6 or 7 more. I'm sure everything is fine. Your symptoms are probably just light right now. They'll come back - probably worse ; (
Try to relax over the weekend. Stress is bad for baby. You'll see the doctor on Monday and everything will be fine.
Well I duno if this will help but I 17 when I had my first and I was scard and I didn't go to the doctor till I was 6 months . After that then you can feel their every move but dont worry your little baby is in there it's just resting and growing dont worry about it .
I felt this with each one of my boys all the way until they started moving, It just means your body is handling your pregnancy well and adjusted easily. Thats good! This fourth one I have had horrible sickness am 19 weeks and gained nothing! Be grateful your having such a great experience! Good luck congrats and maybe its a boy!!!
I felt like that with my first pregnancy too. There were a lot of times for a bit out of my day I would not even remember I was pregnant. Then it would hit me again. I didn't really have any symptoms either. Trust me, give it a few more weeks! :)
I wasn't sick or nothing with my first child. I never even felt her move in side of me so yeah that is kinda freaky. Talk to your Doctor and let them know what is going on. it is about 20 weeks tha you start to feel your baby moveing
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