Monday, August 23, 2010

Really could use some advice please help?

I'm 17 and BI and my younger brother is 15 and gay. We are going to tell them at diner in a few hours. What should we say? What should we do? advice please, and our mom's best friend is gay and both of them met my openly gay friend who is now my boyfriend and didn't seem to mind. Please advice and none about not coming out or saying we should.Really could use some advice please help?
It sounds like they're going to be ok with it from what you're said so I would go ahead and tell them.





One of you say ';Mom, Dad, there's something we have to tell you';, and then just tell them. If one of you feels more confident than the other then that person could go first.





Congratulations on deciding to come out and good luck!





=]Really could use some advice please help?
Who's ';them';? Your parents? You might have said so. In any case, tell them the truth. Tell them how you both feel, and that you hope this doesn't make them upset in any way, and that you hope they feel free to discuss things with you however and whenever they want to. It's not complicated unless you make it complicated. Just say what you feel.
just don't hold back.





first tell them ';there's something i wanna tell you at dinner';. this way they'll know you have something to say, so they won't be as schocked. also they might even guess that you're going to come out.





when dinner starts, they'll keep nagging you ';so what did you want to tell us'; and then you'll just have to let it out.





good luck!
they should be okay with it.


and i dont even know you,


but i am so proud of you.


because it must be a hard thing to tell.


but really.


theres nothing wrong with it.


so dont think for a second there is.


and what did your brother say when he told you he was gay? say what he said.. and could you put the answer to that in additional information?


dont believe all them haters.


good luck.


please let us know how it goes.





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when you tell your parents expect the worse but hope for the best you know your parents are they open minded this should let you know what there reaction will be like the good thing is you and your brother have each other for moral support good luck
You both should say it together ';mom dad we have something to say'; then u go ';mom dad i am bi'; then your brother ';mom dad i am gay'; and see how it goes
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