Saturday, August 21, 2010

Doggy help please help, advice ?

My parents say to get a dog i need to be more responsible,i try hard to be responsible. what should i do?


Also there always changing their mind and i do my trying to make them feel guilty thing but it dosent work, is there any way to make them commit to getting me a puppy by december 12th


help please Doggy help please help, advice ?
when parents say that for the most part they just don't want a dog...





Doggy help please help, advice ?



Listen to your parents. You don't understand how big of a responsibility having a dog is. Are you planning on paying for the dog? Are you planning on buying food every month for the dog? Buying toys, treats, a leash, a collar, a nail clippers, a brush, dog shampoo, flea and tick medicine, heartworm medicine? What about when the dog gets sick.. who is going to find a reputable vet to take the dog too? What about paying for very expensive vet trips? When you get the dog, it will need many series of expensive shots.. whose going to pay for those?





You need to become more responsible and when you are finally at that level, your parents will notice. If you are just doing things to act like you are responsible so your parents will get you a dog, its wrong and they can see right through it. Just act like a good child, help out when you can and be nice. Stay positive and when the timing is right, the dog will happen. And why would you need the dog by a certain date? That shouldn't matter and God, I hope you aren't wanting it so you can show it off or whatever..
It sounds like you need to try a bit harder to be more responsible as a person who is responsible doesn't try to guilt trip or trick someone into getting them something.





Sorry hon but if you were my kid and tried to constantly guilt me into a dog I'd slam on the brakes so hard about getting a dog it would make your head spin.





Try doing all your chores, homework, etc and maybe take on some extra responsibility such as helping with something that is not normally part of your chores. I imagine your parents are wishy washy about it because they see you try for awhile and then give up and so they change their mind about getting you the dog. You need to be consistent. And hopefully if/when they do allow you to get a dog, it would nice if you continued to keep up on your responsibilities and not just drop everything after you get what you want out of your parents.





I do wish ya the best hon on getting a dog, and if you do it the responsible way you'll enjoy the dog ALOT more and appreciate it more. :)

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